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True love is hard to find
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True love is hard to find It seems like today it's more lust than love here in the world marriages don't last long like they have in the past and couples are mainly cheating on each other or having a open relationship it's crazy in 2020 so I want y'all to tell why things are this way today in our society and why is true unconditional love so hard to find and hard to keep forever? |
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2/12/2020 9:31 pm |
I don't think people care about love over other things like money and sex and its why I there's so much wrongdoings and hateful things being done to people today we need to treat people with respect and show love more seriously the world would be better for everyone.
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I think there is still lots of true love, but people are less patient today. They seek out immediate gratification. If you want sex, it's never been easier with the internet. If you hit a ruff patch, instead of talking through it, why not post about it on social media. Maybe open a dating app just in case you cant immediately fix what you have, or mssg that ex from years ago. The internet plays such a big role in relationships today, Its to easy to cheat, or get bad advice, or to look for a new mate, instead of working through ruff patches. Feel free to message my private mailbox
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Very sorry you lost your husband. Being 30, I literally cant imagine loosing someone I loved for 32 years, and how hard that must have been. And isnt it said we have sites like Ashley Madison, specifically geared towards having a affair, and we wonder why the divorce rate is so high. Feel free to message my private mailbox
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It seems like today it's more lust than love here in the world .... No. This has always been the worlds condition because [for example; you standing there with an erection, you want to fuck some woman/women] by Nature men want to have some women to copulate with. This creates a euphoria, an infatuation, and you and the woman feels closer. You're not really, though. But some people get married under those conditions. Not a good idea to get married during infatuation. marriages don't last long like they have in the past .... People live longer. Go back in time further and further, and eventually you'll find the average human only lived to maybe 25 or 30....So, consider the first recorded evidence of marriage ceremonies uniting one woman and one man dates from about 2350 B.C., in Mesopotamia. These people were getting married at , probably, around age 12 or 13. and lived to maybe 30. So maybe marriages shouldn't really be expected to last long considering the average males and females life span today is 77 , 81 years. I'm saying, if you think you need to get married, do so, have your children, children become old enough to be on their own, and then terminate your marriage , if you want. But to expect, today, you'll be with someone for your entire life? Maybe not. Older people like Granny, finding someone now is still possible, and they could much easier expect life long companionship than you in your 30's. and couples are mainly cheating on each other or having a open relationship it's crazy in 2020 ..... Oh, this has been happen happening for thousands of years. Today we just have more modes of communication, instant information right now, so all this cheating and open relationship nonsense just seems new and prevalent in our culture. Even Abraham Lincoln had at least one mistress. and why is true unconditional love so hard to find ... Because that doesn't exist. Books and movies and tv shows are stories told that try to reinforce the concept that love is unconditional, but by Nature, there is always a "Condition" for why two people to become a couple. If those conditions go away , there is a good chance the couple breaks up. ...Also keep in mind, only because two specific people conditionally become a couple, doesn't mean either one of them can't do that again with someone else. And today with our ability to instantly reach out to someone , this makes the possibility of finding someone else a whole lot easier. The Greeks have 7 different kinds of love. Look into that, and read up on infatuation. and hard to keep forever? .... Don't expect that to happen, especially in your generation and the generations to follow.
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Oh , and if you do both consider terminating your legal marriage after your kids are old enough to be on their own, you'll probably still have "Ludas"love with your mate [see Greek 7 types of love]. - if you have a good and wise woman. " For Plato, love aims at beautiful and good things, because the possession of beautiful and good things is called happiness, and happiness is an end-in-itself. Of all beautiful and good things, the best, most beautiful, and most dependable is truth or wisdom, which is why Plato called love not a god but a philosopher: He whom love touches not walks in darkness. So relax on trying to find or expect the "Unconditional" fairytale nonsense.
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Money is nice to have, but it doesn't bring happiness, you can be a multi millionaire and still be lonely. Sex brings short lived happiness but in this world of instant gratification, it's usually VERY short lived. I seek a partner, a monogamous! partner, someone to make love to, and care for and be cared for. I am an independent woman and don't need materiel things, but I do seek love and companionship. And NO.. I probably won't find it here,hence I've stopped looking here.
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3/23/2020 12:35 pm |
Mostly all relationship and marriages today are affected and impacted greatly by money but people try to act like money isn't a factor that drives the direction of a marriage or relationship but it always does because people have motives and when those motives don't get fulfilled that's when issues come along just watch reality tv shows today and it shows you exactly how so many people can be bought out meaning they be with people that are rich to live a certain lifestyle but get treated bad by their partners in so many ways but they stay with them anyway just for the money it's crazy.
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11/28/2020 7:19 pm |
Thanks for the feedback
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