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Almost 60 and Sassy as Hell  

SweetNSpicy6069 64F
8 posts
9/9/2019 4:34 pm
Almost 60 and Sassy as Hell

Something strange began happening in my late 40s. After a lifetime of people pleasing and trying to make everybody like me I said fuck it. Literally. 2 bad marriages and several cheating bastatd boyfriends is just the kind of thing to make a simple country girl stop and wonder, what the hell was my problem? Everyone got my best. I just never figure out how to give my best to myself. I had a girlfriend who was swinging. She told me how it changed her. Made her feel again. Alive again. Brave again. I knew in moment i was gonna dive in head first and never look back. And 's exactly what I did. In journey I found my passion I never knew was in there. I began to appreciate the time things and gained a new perspective allowed to be grateful not just when there was no storm but right in the middle of it. Claiming my sexuality and giving myself permission to love and be free added more to my life than I ever dreamed. The shackes were off and I could for the first time say. This is for me. Just me. And 's a beautiful thing.

Pantyhose1999 24F

9/9/2019 5:28 pm

 You go girl!! Lol. Good for you. Let me know if you wanna chat more. You seem amazing !!


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
9/9/2019 5:40 pm

 How wonderful for you! You proved the one adage that's nearly always true- never give up. You might not get what you were looking for, but nothing ventured, nothing gained.

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justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
9/9/2019 6:37 pm

 A beautiful Zen mindset.

The inevitable pain (mental and/or physical) of human experience tends to make us more fearful and defensive. Good on you for moving past those defense mechanisms and reopening yourself to experience and acceptance.

Enjoy the rewards that come with letting go of judgment and control and receiving the world with open hands.


kbduster1 70M
Ask me for a photo
14 posts
9/9/2019 7:13 pm

 Pleasing others makes one think that others will appreciate that and return the gesture, showing they care and trying their best. Instead lots of times people just take. It's almost acceptable these days for people to be selfish in a bad way (and no, not referring to you of course). You are not selfish. You were due a good change that benefited you and apparently you've done that very well. Smart. I admire that. Good for you!


phxguy34 46M
42 posts
9/13/2019 5:05 pm

 gday fit aussie living in phx az here. k!k me at phxguy34 or 480-878-3220


passing_out 61M
Ask me for a photo
6 posts
9/18/2019 9:40 am

 Congratulations on finding yourself! Most people never do.


ludwig202 72M
11894 posts
9/28/2019 12:37 pm

 you are wonderfully elegant and sexy


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