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Hard Times  

NoFks2give 37F
6 posts
9/10/2019 7:30 am
Hard Times


Lol reminds of the lengthy time frame in which I coudn't seem get a dick hard! I was with ex husband 12years and never had a problem. He would get hard on command unless it was immediately after we just had. . . .then he needed a little time. but never a chore. After the demise of my marriage, drugs presented in life as an adult and I learned how common of an issue a flaccid penis or dopedick was. Some Looser told me once too "your not trying hard enough" I was so offended! LIKE WHAT???? hold the fukn phones ppl!! I have to actively provoke a cock to get to a firm enough state to fuck with?!?!? get the fuk outta here! lol needless to say I didn't fuk with him long.

The hard times I'm referring to right now are more about the sacrifices we make and the grief we subject ourselves to when we come to terms that someone or something in our lives has to change in a big way, or end all together if we are to grow.

Change is so uncomfortable. Familiarity, so hard to let go of . . . . the adjusting of habits is imperative, and accountability can no longer be ignored. Is this growing pains? its giving<b> anxiety </font></b>and I want to turn back, but then again, no one wants go backwards. . . .

I know which way to go . . . . I just cant seem to move

Fervent7 55M
457 posts
3/1/2020 5:35 pm

"You're not trying hard enough"? Seriously? Sounds like someone trying to project his own personal problems onto you. You don't need that crap. (What the hell is with people like that?)

But about the other hard times...

Yeah, unexpected change can suck. (Wrong suck.) You can do it, and it usually gets easier (somewhere along the way) and leads someplace better, even if making those first steps down that path look like the hardest (wrong hard) thing to do ever.

You'll get there. You can. One step at a time.


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