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A MUST READ!!!  

Melbass56 61F
114 posts
8/11/2019 10:37 am
A MUST READ!!!


Okay guys, I think its time to be told the do's and don'ts when it comes to treating and talking to women on this site. You really think posting pictures of your hot bodies and cocks you will get any woman you want on this site just because its a sex site!!???? First of all...don't EVER assume!!! Your in for a rude awakening because it doesn't work way for us. ( Or at least me). You think you guys would be smart enough to know this now, but apparently... your not!!! Sadly, most of you are assholes and liars...( and i say this lovingly and unfortunately from experiencing it first hand)...and is not going to get you anywhere...even on a sex site!!! You need to learn how to communicate with women and communicate I mean...talk nicely to and maybe even compliment instead of asking to "lick our pussies"...just sayin...or whatever the fuck you want to do with us. Trust me guys...we love sex just as much as you, and can pretty much have it anytime we want...( we both know there are way more men on this site than women...so essentially...we have our pick of the litter...so to speak. ) You guys can get soooo many more women if you just learned how to communicate and what to say to grab our attention...and most importantly...to keep it!!! And please...for the love of God...post some decent pics!!!! Love ~Mel~

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
8/11/2019 12:02 pm

Where's HeathenG when you need him ?


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/11/2019 12:24 pm

When women tell you that nonsense, that's a red flag, and you need to tell her to shut the hell up. Then leave the crow.

Women make a conscious choice to be on a sex site, and with that, she then accepts that men, with a functioning penis, are on sex sites for sex. She also accepts that , "Women [even the fat ones] are for sex and entertainment" , on sex sites..... if she doesn't want a particular man she can go way.


Melbass56 replies on 8/11/2019 8:34 pm:
You are correct, and we are here for the same reasons guys are, but, it doesn't mean we have to put up with your crap, nor be treated like a piece of meat. And guys(even the fat ones)...are also here for the sex and entertainment...of most other men! Btw...how many women have you met from this site?

Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
8/11/2019 4:20 pm

The guyze you're referring two, can't reed to good. 🤔
Two bad. Itz a grate massage your delivering.🙂
So... what else is knew?
Whatcha do this weak end? 😶
I went down to the lake... and saw a duck. 🦆

Great smile... btw. What are you thinking of, in THAT, shot?


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
8/11/2019 4:51 pm

“Even the fat ones”, lol. Yep


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
8/11/2019 10:20 pm

Well stated !!

Plus, your completely correct in everything you said.


sdbnow 67M/67F
32 posts
8/11/2019 10:24 pm

Not only do they screw it up for themselves acting that way, they make it real hard for us to really find someone without wasting a lot of my time. My husband had his prostate removed due to cancer and after a long time of no sex and I know a lot of soul searching he let me be with my friend, thanks bab. He went throught an operation about 6 months ago for an implant and I want to find someone for him so I can keep playing but most women think he is not telling them the truth. I have even tried to communicate but have not had any success yet but I will keep trying.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/12/2019 11:35 am

Melbass56 replies on 8/11/2019 8:34 pm:
You are correct, and we are here for the same reasons guys are, but, it doesn't mean we have to put up with your crap, nor be treated like a piece of meat. And guys(even the fat ones)...are also here for the sex and entertainment...of most other men!


You are correct, and we are here for the same reasons guys are,... So concentrate on your goals. Complaining about what others do , will not change anything. Oh sure.. some will agree with you , but so what.

but, it doesn't mean we have to put up with your crap,.... Define crap... on second thought.. don't. Men , on here, have to put up with the crap of women, too.... so just deal with it or get offline.

nor be treated like a piece of meat. ....What does that mean? You chose to put your image and resume of what you want of a man, on sex site.....if men are at all attracted to you , these guys have sexually objectified you. Feel good about that, because if they didn't, then they wouldn't even try to contact you. So your take away is: If you get contacted by a man, even if he is trying his best to be gentlemanly, he is sexually interested in mounting you . That's his objective.

And guys(even the fat ones)...are also here for the sex and entertainment...of most other men! Btw... .Sure , there are homos sexually objectifying men, but telling me that tidbit doesn't change anything. For straight men, the women are still for sex and entertainment.


Melbass56 replies on 8/12/2019 7:28 pm:
Your missing the point..."You catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar."

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/12/2019 7:44 pm

Melbass56 replies on 8/12/2019 7:28 pm:
Your missing the point..."You catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar."


See, what you said here is all vinegar: "I think its time to be told the do's and don'ts when it comes to treating and talking to women on this site. You really think posting pictures of your hot bodies and cocks you will get any woman you want on this site just because its a sex site!!????"

You are right, women can get more men by being honey sweet. That's worked for hundreds of thousands of years.

You don't need to be all vinegary telling men the do's and don'ts ..... when you're interested in the man choosing you, chat with him..... if he doesn't appeal to you don't respond.

It's a sex site.... everybody is going to be a little different or similar in the way they try to gain attraction.


Melbass56 replies on 8/16/2019 3:46 pm:
Yes...it is a sex site. But that doesn't mean we should be horrible and disrespectful...

Just4u3371 58M
247 posts
8/16/2019 5:08 am

Well put .. I agree. It comes down to how they were brought up .. no respect.


Melbass56 replies on 8/16/2019 3:45 pm:
I agree...thank you!!

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/16/2019 9:15 pm

Melbass56 replies on 8/16/2019 3:46 pm:
Yes...it is a sex site. But that doesn't mean we should be horrible and disrespectful...


Oh now who is being horrible? A few? And what is "Horrible"?

And "Disrespectful"? Respect is earned. And some men are more sexually aggressive than other men. Men should not tone it down to an apologetic sniffling grovel. You women need to accept that there are different types of men for you to choose from. Men will be men. Don't try to emasculate them into something tolerable for you. If you don't like him, skip him.

So yes, this is a sex site. Some men have their wankers peaking between his legs, while other men are dressed.... some are overly polite... some are very aggressive..... deal with it. Pick them or move on. ....But certainly don't try to change how men should be.


warriorholding 58M  
115 posts
9/29/2019 8:53 pm

A well written rant.


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