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It hurts to be human  

Kippie11 51F
0 posts
10/18/2019 9:55 pm
It hurts to be human


Sometimes you get a point in life when you don't see the point in trying care or love or even worry about people. downfall is I'm very attracted married men and you know they can be the worst be around. They don't ever take the time think how a women feels about what's she's doing. She has go home every night after laying down with him alone up not loved,while he goes home someone there with open arms, grant it may not give up the sex alot but is there take of there home or or whatever. When it comes finding there man has done wrong were always the slut the trash and 's there back us up nobody. It's a battle you fight everyday and your never gonna win. Maybe if I become a person doesn't feel anything then I can be like half the people I know but I can't. I'm tired of the thing over and over I've put human nature be decent people and it gets called a bad person. I still will be attracted married men, I will still let people do me like they do but at least I can say that if they ever need me or want me I will be there for them. Being in the position they are i still can feel....

unode53 59M
16 posts
10/18/2019 11:39 pm

somos como somos


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
10/19/2019 12:14 am

yes....sometimes it does hurt to be human. We must examine how we contribute to that hurt. There is a saying....' if we know better , we do better ' anddddd......' if we WANT something different, we DO something different'. The choice is yours and yours ....alone.~~


RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
10/19/2019 12:23 am

The apposite expression is "if you lie down with dogs expect to wake up with fleas".

You need to ask yourself why somebody else's husband appeals to you. If they are not swingers (the couple) then the guy is having sex with you behind his wife's back. If he claims to love her, he is not leaving her for you, so you are setting yourself up to be used (which I think you see). Ask yourself why. There must be lots of single men in Texas, so why not date them? Maybe you are afraid of the responsibility for maintaining a relationship with a man of your own - you need not be. We are all grown-ups and if something is not working, as a free agent, you can always move on. Perhaps you need to work on your self esteem and see yourself as a woman that a man would be eager to come home to and could love and cherish - since you are plainly looking for a realtionship and not just sex.

Good luck.


looking42mature 28M

10/19/2019 1:05 am

it hurst to fuck ..... when you dick gets soar from fucking sooo much


MaxVonHoroschau 50M
20 posts
10/19/2019 1:27 am

Sometimes you just have to say “Fuck him and feed him pork”. They always say that the heart want what the heart wants. But they forget that the heart is mindless and doesn’t know what’s good for it. You just stand up, buck up, and brush him off. You’re beautiful, mature, and you can always do better.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/19/2019 3:21 am

Seems like you're making a big deal out of married men, and I don't know why.

You are single. You can be with any man, married or single. The married man, whom you imagine going home to his wife, is not a happily married man if he has had a need to be with you.

You shouldn't make such a big deal out of "Being loved", either. If people like you? You are way better being , "Liked".

Being "Loved", is such a flimsy state of being . The slightest indiscretion can end it.

Being "Liked", is so much stronger. Slight indiscretions don't end being "Liked". And being , "Liked" you still have sex and all the pleasure that goes along with it. Unless of course you find yourself "Friendzoned"... then you may as well walk away if you want them sexually.


jolielaide 52F  
1754 posts
10/19/2019 3:41 am

you can be you and have a heart of love to express and give but why the struggle love? you're in a struggle for what is not yours and you sound a little sick inside, like down in your belly sick, when you ate something you shouldn't have. i'm down for love too, but i don't and won't put myself in a position where i gotta struggle for love. i applaud the honesty, but idk if the attraction is worth it. and to just "be there for them" if they call or need you?? that's nothing more than some girl's sloppy seconds. you've got to be worth more than that. to show your worth is to know your worth.


Maturemanindy317 59M
27 posts
10/19/2019 4:21 am

Thats good


Thedominateman69 39M

10/19/2019 4:35 am

Great blog and I'm happy you can vent here!


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