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can not go on IM and cannot respond to messages lol how does one chat on here?  

marybaby22 58F
7 posts
7/30/2019 1:32 pm
can not go on IM and cannot respond to messages lol how does one chat on here?


can not go on IM and cannot respond to messages lol how does one chat on here?

rm_1littlehose 61M
528 posts
7/30/2019 1:55 pm

You just did it. Blogs. I created a Blog to chat with like minded ppl.
Good Luck Here.


ASimpleGoodMan9 55M

7/30/2019 2:10 pm

Hi, one good way to do it is use your blog, check out the people who read your blog. you could add a comment to there blog where they could reach out to you.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
7/30/2019 2:17 pm

You can make a private message box on your blog for members who want to contact you hun and they can remain private for your eyes only. Unfortunately they just took away 3 free IM's daily to standard members, now you have to use points to chat with other members. There are a lot of us members who are always giving points away. Enjoy blog land hun and welcome..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


jolielaide 52F  
1754 posts
7/30/2019 2:56 pm

marybaby, on your personal home page you can comment on the photos that people have posted. that also gives you visibility and whatever the tone of your comment, the poster can reply back (or not, if they so choose), and/or view your profile/blog in return. there are other ways to participate on this site beyond 'chat'


Rob_4_Fun 49M
28 posts
7/30/2019 2:57 pm

Yeah, just like everyone has been saying, using the blog as a means of connecting is a way to then share contact details to chat or talk offsite.


looking4fun12114 50M
48 posts
7/30/2019 3:11 pm

i wanna chat too


RyuFujin 56F  
1445 posts
7/30/2019 5:24 pm

Blogs are the way to go right now, until the powers that be decide what to do with the I*M*. It doesn't work at all for this gold member, so I don't use it. But I have set up a personal postbox on my blog where Standard members can contact me.

Go to BiggLala's blog, if you wish to know how to create a personal postbox. Easy enough instructions to follow, and it doesn't leave you feeling like you need to know rocket science.


"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


GhostofH 65M
22788 posts
7/31/2019 6:37 am

I agree with most of the commenters that you can make a Personal Postbox or use one of the many chat rooms, especially your local Manitoba one. Also, you could use points to view and e-mail potential members who pique your curiosity. If all else fails, you will simply have to buy/pay for a membership. Good luck in your search.


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