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Straight guys  

alluringsmile4u 53F  
14 posts
1/12/2020 11:25 am
Straight guys


Why do you add men as friends who are clearly looking for other men?
As a woman NOT interested in bi men, this puts a red flag up and I disconnect , no matter how Interested I am in you.
As a straight woman looking for straight men, I would never add a bi female as a friend.

Just my opinion.

shadowtoo69 68M  
1056 posts
1/12/2020 11:29 am

So a man can not have a gay or Bi friend unless he is Bi? So you have no female friends?


alluringsmile4u replies on 1/12/2020 6:22 pm:
This site, for the most part,is a sex site.
I do have female friends off site. I am not interested in a female here because most are looking for a bi female. I dont lick pussy so I wont even entertain the idea.

seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
1/12/2020 11:45 am

    Quoting shadowtoo69:
    So a man can not have a gay or Bi friend unless he is Bi? So you have no female friends?
Yes, but in the context of this site... red flag to me too


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
1/12/2020 11:49 am

I think the key thought here is that you may be putting to much thought into the idea, A straight guy can't have male friends? The question is to what level are these friendships, I am the straightest guy you will ever meet/ talk to of interreact with, I have male friends, they are acquaintances that happen to any one in his life.. I think you are putting a bit to much into this thought and you may look over your perfect guy because he has a male friend... Think on this!!!! aAnd pour you one from my bottle, it is sitting to the left...more than enough!!

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MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
1/12/2020 11:59 am

A straight woman who has other straight women in her friends list would not put me off. Why should it? They're just friends.

I know a lot of straight women who are friends off the site (but made friends through this site) who meet up for shopping trips, concerts, camping weekends, etc, and although they may also use Facebook, Snapchat and other communication routes, still keep their friendship attached on here.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


Misfit7935 44M
31 posts
1/12/2020 12:24 pm

I consider myself straight. I'm not attracted to men but I do enjoy receiving anal sex occasionally. Just as happy to get it from a woman with a strap-on or TS as a man


stringtime666 62M
1128 posts
1/12/2020 12:27 pm

friends do not have to be sex partners, whether male or female friends

Lust was zu schreiben? [post Privater Briefkasten Privat Mailbox (private Mailbox)


goodplay696 36M

1/12/2020 12:38 pm

to each their own


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
1/12/2020 12:47 pm

The question ASSumes that online friendship is the same as in-person real life friendships. People who believe that have drunk the online Koolade laced with stupid. If this is believed I strongly suggest the believer step far away from their device and spend time outside and rediscover real people.

I have male friends and fans here and there are a few guys I would enjoy meeting for . . . a couple beers and to discuss the idiocy of things people "think". Those meeting would not end up with me undressed.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
1/12/2020 2:30 pm

Interesting Q. ❗
There's a switch to turn all THAT stuff private. They obviously don't care.
When I first started... I was GRATEFUL for ANY friend... lol 😂 So... I'd accept their invites. Yah.. I was lame. 😶😂
I've learned, since then.
i think...


alluringsmile4u 53F  
7 posts
1/12/2020 6:29 pm

This site, for the most part,is a sex site.
I have been in chats and spoken to many different ppl, men and women.
But being this is a sex site, and one man is "looking for male" means he is bi. A guy who adds this man is entertaining the idea of being with a man OR you have just shown other men you are interested in men.


SC4wheels 50M
410 posts
1/13/2020 9:55 am

A lot of people on this site have an incorrect definition of straight. Welcome to the world of "alternative facts".


alluringsmile4u replies on 1/15/2020 6:34 pm:
I agree. So many people are not sure what the hell they are.
Some men think if they only suck another man off, they arent bi or gay

blllyjack765 50M
95 posts
1/13/2020 1:10 pm

I agree with sc4wheels...both men and woman on this site don't understand the difinition of straight...no such thing as being bi or bi - curious and thinking your straight..quit twisting the facts the way u want just to justify your homosexual tendacies


alluringsmile4u replies on 1/15/2020 6:30 pm:
Never have I wanted to or even thought of, being with a woman. I have enough with my own pussy. Dont need another.

eweneekkent 63M

2/9/2020 6:20 pm

You have to be yourself and you chose who you want to be with and that is wonderful


igot94u2006 57M  
2 posts
2/22/2020 4:37 pm

You cant always assume someone added a same sex person as a friend either. Ive been on here over 10 yrs and have added more than a few "couples" who at sometime or another changed their profiles to M or F. Im to lazy to go thru looking for them but have removed 2 or 3 over the years.
Also I do have M ckd under "looking for" in my profile, not because Im looking for same sex but because they dont show up under whos online if I dont. And I like to see everyone whos on the site in my area ....more because Im nosy than any thing else!


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