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An update on our dynamic ...
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An update on our dynamic ... Hubby here ... We made plans get back into the lifestyle earlier this year, and we had corresponded with several gentleman in anticipation of meeting in April / May after we returned from our southern vacation. Our plans came to a screeching halt when the pandemic and when self-isolation was necessary. As much as we want get back into it, there is great reluctance our part ... so when a gentleman is patient and takes the long view, and can pique her interests the point where she wants meet for a drink, then we will proceed! I was asked if I wanted the "hard" or "soft" Bull/Alpha-HotWife-cuck dynamic . For sure, "soft" is the dynamic we have experienced, even bridging "hard", and I am sure she is still into it because we still talk about what we have done ... "soft" - my watching her, helping her prepare, attending both of them ... and starting get into the "hard" dynamic - my fluffing him and her, guiding his cock into her pussy, holding her legs wide for him, licking her pussy and his cock from underneath while he is fucking her from behind, clean-, leaving the room when told, knowing that my cock is smaller than his ... I want to go a little more into the Bull/Alpha-HotWife-cuck dynamic ... a little harder. I started thinking about self-chastity and even having my HotWife lock in a cock case. So last year, I bought a cock cage give her but just didn't have the courage until most recently. We resumed talking openly about her being a HotWife and what that means. She knows of course that she can have sex with anyone she wants and whenever she wants, but she has very high standards. I then told her that the whole point of being a HotWife is to enjoy sexual experiences that I, her husband, simply cannot provide. We have lived and experienced the HotWife scene - at least in the "soft" sense" - so it would be entirely beneficial for us to resume and build on our experiences. With the kind of update on how we saw things, I told her that I bought a gift for her ... and she discovered it while on a weekend get-away when I packed my bag with the boxed cock cage in it. I then explained to her what is was, how it worked, and sent her a link to a web-site with more information "Locked in Lust" that was presented from the woman's perspective. And finally, two days ago, I put the cock cage on myself just before we went into the hot tub ... she seemed to like my wearing it ... and I figured she would because she does like to control me! I wore it for a good part of the day but then I had to do some physical work Ultimately, I would like her to put the lock on my cage, and the key on her necklace or anklet. We would meet her lover - first time for a drink only, second time with a plan to - with her key obviously displayed and openly talked about over a drink or two. She would flirt and tease, and be teased ... and I know that if she likes you in the first d the second date will go like this: part way through the first or second drink, her signal is go the bathroom, come back with her panties in her hand, and place them the table beside your drink ... a clear signal that she wants ! When the time comes for her , and she is the decision-maker, she would either go on a solo date or invite her lover over for the evening, perhaps even a sleep-over ... and she keeps locked for the entire time! The evening would include my being told what to do: get drinks, etc., undress her for him, unzip his pants, get my knees suck his cock while the two of them look down at and kiss, lick her while he kisses her, guide his cock into her pussy, hold her legs , lick and clean both after he cums in her ... seeing, knowing, and acknowledging that his cock is so much larger and thicker than mine, and that my small cock could most likely never satisfy her again. He would spend the night with her, and either I would sleep in the same bed - hear them - or in another room. The two of them would mutually decide about . Finally, in the morning, they would either keep caged or unlock , and instruct stroke myself cum in my hand. Being comfortable in such a "Bull/Alpha-HotWife-cuck" dynamic for long-term ongoing would be the ultimate ... it doesn't need be every weekend, but a couple of times a month would be a nice balance. |
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Your lucky to have such an adventurous lady.
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