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It takes work being a GOOD Dom  

SGACouple60 69M/69F  
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5/2/2020 10:42 am
It takes work being a GOOD Dom

Submissives and<b> slaves </font></b>yearning for the Dominant that they can freely give unto can take allot of time. It can take time to find a Dom that a sub can build the trust required. The gift a sub gives is not something that can be taken but must be earned. A Dom understands what is offered freely cannot be taken without honesty, trust and caring. Finding a real Dom, not an insecure person wanting to prove their own self worth by trying to take something without earning it, can be a journey through many so called dominants. These so called doms that think that a submissive can be controlled or ordered to comply without first receiving the subs consent are not True Doms. A true Dom is not an abusive control freak but an intelligent, insightful and nurturing person.

The true Dominant understands the gifts a submissive / slave offer are treasures to be appreciated and cherished. Providing the means and opportunity to give something as valuable as oneself, takes understanding. To freely offer submission to another based on integrity, trust and a desire to serve another is not taken but wholeheartedly offered freely.

A True Dom cannot take control, it has to be earned and generously offered. Doms that believe they can force or take control without earning it are under the delusion that the Dom is the important person and the sub is there only to bend to their will. It is truly the opposite, in that a True Dom knows that their position is to provide a safe and secure environment and ensure that any sub has the opportunity to freely give of themselves because they desire to do so. A true Dom understands the desires of the sub and provides what they see give guidance and order chaos, provide the freedom from having decide every little choice with structure and discipline and the gratification of praise and reward for pleasing. serve another that they deeply desire please, because knowing they are respected for their servitude and their devotion their Dom.

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