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Blogs > AznBucker > A Sexual approach to PTSD

Voyeurism and exhibitionism - More natural than you thought  

AznBucker 44M
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5/8/2019 11:20 pm
Voyeurism and exhibitionism - More natural than you thought

Why do humans hide the act of sex?

I have not found a single scientific explanation for it.

What about the other humans that don't hide it. The exhibitionists, and the voyuers? Why do most humans conceal their acts of sex, while some others want to show themselves having sex to other people? I don't have the answer, but for those that believe it's natural to have sex with your partner in private, you're wrong. Dead wrong. Dead dead wrong. Dead dead dead dead dead dead wrong.

But human sexuality is different! Hmmm....what's different about it? Female orgasms, perhaps. In the human species, the females have orgasms and that's different from other species.

Wrong

But human sexuality is different from other species because we participate in foreplay. Wrong.

But human sexuality is different because we practice monogamy. Wrong.

But human sexuality is different because we have sex not only for reproduction but also pleasure. Wrong.

But human sexuality is different because there is "romance". Wrong.

But human sexuality is different because we practice homosexuality, whereas, it has only been observed in other species in captivity, and not in the wild! Wrong.

But human sexuality is different because some of us in our species play transgender roles, and that doesn't happen in other species. Wrong again, but thanks for playing, and try again.

But human sexuality is different because some of us are attacted to bestiality, that is the act of having sex with a member from a different species, and surely that's unique, right? Wrong again!

But human sexuality is different because we tend to have sex it private. Right! Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right.

Bingo. That's the one difference that has stood the test of time, and has stood the test of scientific rigor. That's the one difference, but why? I don't know. I want to have sex, and I don't care if it's private or if people are around. Watch! Listen! Learn! Watch! Listen! Enjoy!
Breaking down barriers: Attempting a sexual journey back from the depths of PTSD
Gina_L07 67T

5/9/2019 4:55 am

 Great Points and this should be seen in the regular blog section. I had to search transgender to see it. Someone told me that in order to get a blog in the main area you have to respond to your blog before posting it. Anyways, I looked for it in the main area and did not find it there. Ask one of the regular bloggers here if I am right about that and let me know too. Take care.

Gina


AznBucker replies on 5/9/2019 3:18 pm:
Thanks Gina. I'm glad you found this blog entry interesting! I'll try to see about the other stuff, but I'm just starting this, so my focus is just to journal, journal, journal. My hope is that it'll slowly unmask the person behind the keyboard, and anyone and everyone who chooses to read my ramblings feels like they know me.

Over the next couple of entries, I'm gonna get a little philosophical, but it's because I really want to convey who I am, and make this blog as personal as possible.

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