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Love This is a question for the men out there who identify as straight or bi. It concerns a topic that has not only been all over the interweb lately. It has to do with attraction between straight identifying cis men and transgender/transsexual women. We all know the attraction exists. I find it to be a wonderful thing. My query, to those of you who are cis male is: Do you believe that a cis man can truly fall in love with a transsexual woman or do you chalk it up to too much "Sissy" porn? Can it be love or is it merely a fetish? Please post your comments below. The only rule is is this: Respect. |
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3/31/2019 8:42 am |
As far as a alpha cis male I think it would be a very rare thing unless she was incredibly passable and even then the man would have to not be concerned about someone finding out and then having friends and family issues over it. This would even be true of post op transwomen as society can be cruel over its insinuations and assumptions regarding the sexual desires of any man dating or marrying a pre or post op transgirl. Despite what most say, some gay type men do like transgirls and would probably be the easiest dealing with any of that kind of affection. However, times are changing and hopefully this will not be an issue in the near future. Be safe.
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Gina_L makes the point of the family and friends, etc. which is a strong valid point!! It's certainly complicated, we live in a society that hasn't completely accepted the trans community yet. but at the same time, you aren't having a romantic relationship with them, it's one's choice to be with this other person, who completes them and makes their life special. No matter who.
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4/7/2019 7:33 am |
if a straight male falls in love with another man, regardless of the label you want to put on the other male... ts, gay, cd, post op, pre.op... can he still call himself a stright male? regardless of your need for labeling, not everything belongs in a box, and not all boxes have the same ingredients before the write brothers man could not fly before cornelis drebbel man could not sail under the sea my question would be doesluvexist why the need to label everything and to your question the answer would be YES! YES! YES! two PEOPLE can fall truly in love regardless of what you want to label them. bonne chance there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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Heard this morning that even men will soon be able to get pregnant like any woman,and why would someone not be able to love another male or ts pre op a gay or what ever as it is the person you are with passionately anyway. We,my wife and I believe we are sharing our love with others when we are with others, intimately as it is the same as when we are with each other Dick or CD Dee Dee and Susie
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Yes, I believe that a cis man can truly fall in love with a transsexual woman. But then I've been accused of being a myopic romantic. Sure, there are all sorts of impediments and friction involved that make a love like that difficult and challenging. But love overcomes such hurdles all the time, whether in secret or in the open. And love also transcends the sexual attraction. It is more than anything that you might attribute to too much "Sissy" porn? It may start as a fetish, but if a transexual woman meets a man's sexual, emotional and spiritual needs, then I believe two people can be content and grow together in unity. Is that too optimistic? Am I sugar coating the hard realities? I don't think so.
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