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Blogs > rm_bri28ma > buff geek in C-ville, VA

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rm_bri28ma 47M
186 posts
7/8/2006 5:17 am

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3/13/2007 5:34 pm
Blow jobs
I was recently talking with a female friend about blow jobs...more specifically deep throat. From her perspective...Can she do it? Do guys ask for it? Do they seem to like it? She'd asked what I like, position I like to be in, pace, etc...
This got me thinking though...while I understand oral is mostly about the pleasure of the reciever...what about the pleasure of the giver? Blowjobs are far sexier if the giver is enjoying herself in my mind, so as a woman, what do YOU like to do to a man? What don't you like to do? I'd really love to know! -Bri
rm_bri28ma 47M
352 posts
7/18/2006 8:54 pm

 hmmm so it's an emotional thing...I definately understand that...I find I get more closeness from giving/recieving oral than any other type of sex...


bayles101 70F

11/17/2006 11:09 am

 I like giving them a lot. I think it's the power, perhaps. The power of giving pleasure or of doing something some women don't like doing. At times it feels too intimate, like Sexyfitwoman said in her comment. That's a signal that I should have waited and gotten to know the person better.


rm_bri28ma 47M
352 posts
12/4/2006 4:47 am

 Loved and Bayles-
I love to hear that women really do enjoy it...and that it's not an obligation. It's so hard for me to sit back and just recieve pleasure...but if my partner is enjoying it as mouch (or more? ) than I am, I think I could learn how to recieve!!


bayles101 70F

12/11/2006 11:22 am

 As bri28ma said, it is hard for some men to lay back and receive pleasure. It is a skill! It is great for a woman to feel in control and that the man is loving what she is doing (the way he can be active is by saying he likes it or moaning or whatever, not JUST laying there like a rock--that is no fun for the woman or the giver of the bj).

It is like dancing: if the follow tries to lead or does not provide a firm frame, it is very hard for the lead to do what he/she is supposed to do, which is lead the dance. He/she is fighting the partner.

So learn to lay back and enjoy! It is wonderful! And later you can reciprocate! Try it for a small amount of time--say 5 minutes--to start out with. You don't have to do anything except say or indicate she is doing great and you are enjoying it! And I know when a man is looking down at me he is enjoying the sight!


rm_bri28ma 47M
352 posts
1/9/2007 4:23 am

 Bayles-
As soon as I find a partner who enjoys going down as much as you seem to, I'll definately "practice"...as much as possible!


damncookies 35F
7 posts
3/8/2007 7:42 am

 I think giving blowjobs is great, because I know that my partner is getting pleasure from it and that pleasures me. I also have to agree with bayles, the man has to be active in it too. Just laying there means nothing, I have to know that you are enjoying it. Whether it is a moan here or there or just the way you move your hips. Just make sure to let them know you enjoy what they are doing and they will enjoy it too.


rm_bri28ma 47M
352 posts
3/13/2007 5:34 pm

 Cookies-
I'm a pretty vocal guy...and I can't help but move my hips!!! It's such a sexy feeling, both physically and emotionally! Alas, I do so miss them... -b


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