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Chapter 3 – The 1st Encounter
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Chapter 3 – The 1st Encounter By now we had exchanged photos of each other. She appeared to be pretty much what she described in her profile. She was a somewhat plain but nice looking woman in her mid-40’s, had medium length brown hair, and a nice smile. In short, she looked like an average housewife. Someone you wouldn’t suspect was looking to have an affair. The day of our meeting I was pretty damn nervous. I couldn’t believe what I was doing. This is not what even dreamed of thinking of doing when I got married. How should I act? What should I say? I reminded myself that my date was with a woman that had expressed an interest in having a sexual relationship outside of her marriage. So, I should expect her to be somewhat open and even initiate conversation about her sex life and expectations. My thought was to let her bring up what she was looking for in a relationship and go from there. She suggested the restaurant we should meet at, and I agreed to meet her there. When I saw her she looked pretty much as I expected. She was dressed in a very nice looking flowered knee-length dress and had on a leather jacket. At around 5-foot, 4-inches, she wasn’t exactly slim, but didn’t appear over weight. Her hair was casually done and her face, although plain looking, was nicely made up, and lit up when she saw me approaching. I returned the smile, and I could tell she appreciated that. We greeted each other, walked inside and were shown to a nice high backed booth that provided some privacy. As expected, we started off with some idle chit-chat about the day we were having, but it didn’t take long for her to open up about her life and situation. She was married and had a couple of<b> teenage </font></b> that she was proud of. The relationship with her husband was disappointing. Although she had a good and stable life with him, he had no passion for her and told her that. Their sex life had become non-existent and she was having trouble dealing with the lack of intimacy. She wanted to feel wanted by a man. She wanted to be kissed with passion. She wanted to have a man touch her in her most sensitive areas. She wanted a man’s cock to penetrate her and bring her to orgasm. She wanted a man to treat her like a woman instead of a housewife. I related on how similar our situations were. Since she wanted to know how I came to seek extramarital affairs, I described to her how our marriage had gone from hot sex to deeply wonderful sex, and then fell off into infrequent and passionless sex. It was unfulfilling and relied totally on my wanting to fuck just for the physical release. I could tell that she was interested. I was too. It seemed like a good match because we were both in the same situation with our spouses, and we wanted to solve the ‘problem’ by having someone on the side to help relieve the pressure. And we wanted to have that connection with just one person. We ended the lunch with an agreement to continue working on the details of how to arrange a rendezvous. I walked her out to her car in the parking lot and she looked at me like she wanted to be kissed. I think this is known as 'getting to first base'. When I did pull her to me and kissed her, responded with a passionate kiss that told me that she was ‘all in.’ On the drive home my head was swimming. I kept thinking about well that went, and that I was so attractive enough to another woman that she was eager to jump into bed with me. I was getting further along a path that led to an extramarital affair. Now I had to really think about this. I had to confront the issue of which path to take; continuing to be faithful to my wife, or not. The first time I jumped into bed with another woman would break my marital vow to be faithful to my wife, and I did not take that lightly. Up until now it had been an exercise in discovering what was possible in hooking up with someone. Now it was a reality, and all I had to do was schedule a rendezvous. I decided that I couldn’t do it. I just wasn’t ready to take that step, and I didn’t know if I ever would. My struggle with understanding and dealing my wife’s attitude was still in progress. Until that was resolved I didn’t see how I could take the next step toward infidelity. We were still having sex when I asked for it, so that had to account for something. Although, I have to say that my interest in having sex with her was declining to less than once a month. That is considered to be a sexless marriage at that point, but we were still fucking on occasion. After a couple of days, I contacted Alice and broke the news to her that we were not going to go any further with the relationship. I made up a story about how my wife had approached me about renewing an interest in our sexual relationship and that I thought it was the best thing to do. Alice was disappointed but appeared to understand. She wished me the best and we ended the relationship. I felt like shit. Next: Chapter 4 - The Conflict |
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