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What's with the people on here?  

Letsmeetandfindo 65M
0 posts
2/7/2019 9:31 pm
What's with the people on here?

Chatted the other night with someone who said they were from KY. They seemed extremely nice. They even sent their phone to . Checked later and the area code was from MT. The picture they sent, provided information of that picture from 20 and it was from Alaska. Disappointed.

Has that happened to you? The site also seems to block me from people that have tried to reach out. Its a pretty frustrating site.

What is your experience here?


Letsmeetandfindo 65M

2/7/2019 9:34 pm

This site can be frustrating.


jandel1965 58F
101 posts
2/7/2019 10:02 pm

I find that I have the opposite problem. Unfortunately, guys here are hit on by scammers more often than not so they will become a bit jaded. I have had several guys in my local area come on gang busters then totally ghost me. These are the same fellas who complain the loudest about people on here not being real or not wanting to meet. Yet here I am.

XO J


Tomthumb07 62M
60 posts
2/7/2019 10:08 pm

yes, its a real problem on here


samantha888 36F  
750 posts
2/7/2019 10:14 pm

just have to sift through all the rubble , there are gems out there


Attentive14Fun 50M

2/7/2019 10:46 pm

That's Senior Sizzle for you. There are lots of fakes on here but there are some real too. You'll figure out pretty quick the fake ones. FYI I does absolutely no good to report these fake profiles more then likely Senior Sizzle will do nothing about it and if they do they'll just let the same fake/scammer profile back on. You're going to gets some members come in here and tell you that you should sign up for a premium account but trust me I've been a premium member on this site many times and it's still the same shitty site and service. This site for the most part is a scam and has been that way the entire ten plus years I've been on and off of it.


HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
2/7/2019 11:19 pm

save your $$$

the site is full of all kinds of technical glitches in addition to the issues you raise


kissing_softly 109F  
216 posts
2/7/2019 11:25 pm

I wouldn't put too much into someone having a cell phone number with a city code different from where they are located; landlines will have local numbers but cell phone numbers stay the same unless the service provider is changed.
Without a paid membership this site will not allow you to send or read e-mails unless to/from a member who has paid for this extra service.


Letsmeetandfindo 65M

2/8/2019 2:49 am

    Quoting jandel1965:
    I find that I have the opposite problem. Unfortunately, guys here are hit on by scammers more often than not so they will become a bit jaded. I have had several guys in my local area come on gang busters then totally ghost me. These are the same fellas who complain the loudest about people on here not being real or not wanting to meet. Yet here I am.
I do see that as a potential of happening. It may have happened to the person who I contacted., due to me reading too much into the information I had at the time. Anyway, I have business meetings in another geography of the country now on the day that we were going to try to meet.


Letsmeetandfindo 65M

2/8/2019 2:50 am

    Quoting Tomthumb07:
    yes, its a real problem on here
I agree that it is still an issue, people pretending to be who they are not.


Letsmeetandfindo 65M

2/8/2019 2:52 am

    Quoting samantha888:
    just have to sift through all the rubble , there are gems out there
I do believe that you are correct, so that is why I am still here , along with the fun here of blogging.


Letsmeetandfindo 65M

2/8/2019 2:55 am

    Quoting Attentive14Fun:
    That's Senior Sizzle for you. There are lots of fakes on here but there are some real too. You'll figure out pretty quick the fake ones. FYI I does absolutely no good to report these fake profiles more then likely Senior Sizzle will do nothing about it and if they do they'll just let the same fake/scammer profile back on. You're going to gets some members come in here and tell you that you should sign up for a premium account but trust me I've been a premium member on this site many times and it's still the same shitty site and service. This site for the most part is a scam and has been that way the entire ten plus years I've been on and off of it.
So you do just have to sift through the profiles until, you find a real person who you connect with. My expectations are low.


Letsmeetandfindo 65M

2/8/2019 2:56 am

    Quoting HAMONMAN:
    save your $$$

    the site is full of all kinds of technical glitches in addition to the issues you raise

I agree. Bails point on the technical.


Letsmeetandfindo 65M

2/8/2019 3:00 am

    Quoting kissing_softly:
    I wouldn't put too much into someone having a cell phone number with a city code different from where they are located; landlines will have local numbers but cell phone numbers stay the same unless the service provider is changed.
    Without a paid membership this site will not allow you to send or read e-mails unless to/from a member who has paid for this extra service.
Yes , I have found this to be true. I have been able to exchange email with people , but they have paid for that feature. Last night it seemed that IM was acting different and not allowing me to see messages, which in the past I could see.


Letsmeetandfindo 65M

2/8/2019 3:02 am

    Quoting  :

I agree. So the percentage play comes down to finding a real person. The hope is that a really person is one that blogs. So that might be a place to start looking


Letsmeetandfindo 65M

2/8/2019 3:51 am

    Quoting  :

Valid point. Patience is the key for this site.


Letsmeetandfindo 65M

2/8/2019 3:53 am

    Quoting  :

And that's okay, but those people should be up front about their intentions. A few are.


bitchkitty2017 71F

2/8/2019 7:02 am

    Quoting  :

I agree with this comment after awhile the person who is lying about something trips themselves up and patience is the key here and recognizing when the trip up comes ..true sensible words...


Letsmeetandfindo 65M

2/8/2019 7:13 am

    Quoting  :

A blind eye. Yes there are people associated with the profiles , but not always who they say they are or what their true intentions might be.


Letsmeetandfindo 65M

2/8/2019 7:16 am

    Quoting  :

Good point. A cross section of the people of the world here. Some honest, some not. Determining that is the key.


Letsmeetandfindo 65M

2/8/2019 7:19 am

    Quoting  :

Excellent point. Doing a blog keeps me up at night. You do need time for this. I use it as a break from work. But most of the bloggers seem to real people.


Letsmeetandfindo 65M

2/8/2019 7:20 am

    Quoting bitchkitty2017:
    I agree with this comment after awhile the person who is lying about something trips themselves up and patience is the key here and recognizing when the trip up comes ..true sensible words...
I agree with this view.


Letsmeetandfindo 65M

2/9/2019 4:57 am

    Quoting  :

Sounds like good advise on the vetting process. I did not confront this person. I just stopped with the contact. It seemed risky. Had another issue where a gray picture person asked me over to their residence. I suggested a public meet. That stopped the conversation.


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