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Men who want to meet NOW  

katjezebel 46F
10 posts
12/3/2018 2:20 pm
Men who want to meet NOW

sorry, do you not read the news? What planet are you from?

Because here, in the US, in the real world, women get killed that way. You to expect to spend some time establishing trust, then you to expect to provide some proof of who you are, plus a way for the woman to confirm you are not an axe murderer, PLUS a way for her friends to alert the police if there is a problem... all of this takes time, and negotiation, in order to establish what is needed and what will work.

Then there is the first meeting. And yeah, you really need to expect there to be AT LEAST one meeting in public before you get to stick it in her. Becayse sex may be great, but being alive is kind of important to most of us.

If you do not understand that a woman's first priority is protecting her life, then you need to get a grip. And stop posting on sex sites, because, seriously? You are too dumb to fuck.

So, please, gentlemen, do all of us on here a favor: Read our ads. Respond to our questions. And please, please , please refrain from messaging us with your phone number and a request to fuck NOW. Because that ain't happening. Not in the real world.

Seriously, if you want someone who is so desperate that she will risk her life, drive down Lake Street in the middle of the night- and know that any contact with that kind of woman means your life is likely to be at risk as well, if not in the short term, then definitely in the long term.

So let's be real. Let's be respectful. Read the ads, respind to the questions and requests, and realize that this will take some time. If you are not ok with that- well, again, this is the real world, so if you want to live in your fantasy realm, go for it, but please don't waste my time.

Thank you.

pleasespankme33 58M
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12/4/2018 12:51 pm

 Exactly........well said!!!!


Ben_Thinking 48M
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1/26/2019 12:17 pm

 i couldn't agree more, and i'm sorry you have to put up with that. not that i've ever had this issue come up, but if i was chatting with someone and they told me just to come over after minimal conversation, and no prior meeting, red flags would be waving. i'm sure it must be infinitely worse. please stay safe, and best of luck to you.


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