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Etiquette  

Nnjjswat 49M
10 posts
11/17/2018 8:19 am
Etiquette

Soooo. After being here for a few weeks, im still in the dark on a couple things. Whats the etiquette for reaching out to contact folks? Should you just send a flirt? Should you send a message? If you send a message what should you say? Should you write a masterpiece or just a few words to say hello? If you write a message, shouldn't it be polite to respond even if it is just to say thanks but no thanks?

Also, the IM doesn't seem to work as well as id hoped.

Anyway, Ill feel my way around and see if I can figure this out but any help would be appreciated.

Happy hunting

pete77715 56M
15 posts
11/17/2018 9:44 am

 good comments


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
11/17/2018 8:43 pm

 Whats the etiquette for reaching out to contact folks? ... There is no etiquette. What's your mood that day? That's how you write.

Good rule of thumb is to comprehend the profile you're reaching out to, for a contact. If she's a nasty bitch , you best reach out in a nasty way, and not like your last girlfriend kept your balls in her coin purse.

Basically , "Understand your target", and act accordingly.

Should you just send a flirt? .... You can do that. But without words to follow up on that, that auto flirt
would be somewhat meaningless.

Should you send a message?....Words are a good idea. Can be as simple as , "Wanna fuck, let's meet". Don't waste your time writing more than 50 or 60 words, maximum for a first salutation.

If you send a message what should you say? ....Anything you want. It's your message.

Should you write a masterpiece or just a few words to say hello? .... Okay think about that... if you wrote a masterpiece , and she didn't respond, that would be a good portion of your life time gone forever.

If you write a message, shouldn't it be polite to respond even if it is just to say thanks but no thanks?.... No. Don't worry about people being "Polite". They may not feel like being polite that day.

Also, the IM doesn't seem to work as well as id hoped. .... So?


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
11/17/2018 8:51 pm
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Plus, far too many men become belligerent when told not interested. ... That's only a little bit true. From what I've read in blogs, lots of women are belligerent to the man first, for the slightest reason, so pushing the guys buttons to get him upset with her.....or the woman just happens to be off her medication that day and interprets a mans message completely wrong.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
11/19/2018 3:57 am
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"Far too many men"..... do not become belligerent without first "Far too many" women becoming belligerent.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
11/19/2018 7:20 pm
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No...I'm mansplaining to you whats going on here sister.


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