Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service
Forgot password?
Blogs > Ladysmyk > The Playdate Update

The Playdate Update  

Ladysmyk 42F
1 posts
10/25/2018 7:53 pm
The Playdate Update

Hook ups, NSA, dating, affairs, Kink, BDSM, Threesomes, Sex parties, FWB, Doms, Subs, Switches, relationship or marriage. Whatever your desire – you can find it online. 80% of single people currently using some form of online dating or hookup app or website, whatever you desire….you can now find others who want the same. AMAZING!
BUT… finding the right person/s can exhausting, stressful and put you off dating all together.

As a woman, may inbox is full every day from men suitors wanting to ravish my body, but I would only respond to 10 % of them. WHY?

If your profile isn’t standing out and grabbing my interest somehow you get lost amongst the rest unfortunately, but a definite deal breaker.is no profile photo. The biggest fail in men’s profiles are the photos, which is understandable considering most aren't a fan of selfies Each person is different, but If you don’t have a picture in your profile, not responding to you….simple.

Now sure that some of these men are respectable men and could be exactly what I desire, but their profile doesn’t reflect this, and i (like most people) do not have the time or patience to chat to every man the messages me trying to find the real personality. Most guys are shit are creating social profiles, this isn’t their fault…. but they either hate taking selfies, or love taking them a little too much (aka gym selfies). They often don’t write a description because their not comfortable writing about their best traits (don’t worry, this is woman as well ). But without a photo and even a brief description, there is no way people can get a sense of you, and so they won’t connect.
Another element is the context of what is written. When writing a description of chatting to someone over text, you to keep in mind that things like humour and sarcasm are often lost in translation. So often men try to be<b> witty </font></b>or funny….and it just doesn’t translate, and never be sarcastic….it never translates properly and why would you write something that could turn off your potential suitor.

A lot of pressure right ? TOTALLY
That’s why Playdate Profiles was born, to help everyone achieve their wants and desires without the stress and anxiety that many experience. More positive, enjoyable experiences for all. Many men that I chat with, or date, feel comfortable enough with me to express exactly how stressful dating can be. Whether it be the pressure to perform sexually, trying to be the perfect gentleman, or obsessing about not doing something stupid or embarrassing!
The number of men who experience anxiety or stress on a regular basis when dating is alarming, and I believe men’s mental health is a major concern for our society.

DATING DISASTERS & DILEMMAS

Now everyone has a dating disaster story,!! and I want to hear them! I also want to hear from anyone who has a dating dilemma, and could do with Lady Smyks advice!
I have plenty of disaster stories too! So they will feature in The Playdate Update as well.
[image]
Happy playing everyone 😉

(Ladysmyk) x
Happy Playing Players

{=}

Lady Smyk

Become a member to create a blog