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TOO MUCH SEX CAN LEAD TO TALKING!!!
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TOO MUCH SEX CAN LEAD TO TALKING!!! If you read my last post (about a week ago now...LOL.) you know I had a fantastic weekend, and by Wednesday I'd lost track of how many times we played "hide-the-weenie"!! After we've made love, the conversation usually starts something like this from my better half..."I feel so close to you, can I tell you about la la la..." or..."Can I talk to you about blah, blah?"...or..."Did I tell you about yadda, yadda?" Don't get me wrong, I pride myself on being a better than average listener, and generally I like talking...but after sex, particularly intense sex, I'm just not generally interested or capable of talking or listening to anything very heavy for a period of time...hell I'm just starting to get comfortable with cuddling!!! I'm not stupid though...I know that being able to effectively fake it at this point is the best strategy for future nookie...but SHEESH...do I really need to know the middle names of ALL your co-workers?? Do you like to yack it up after sex? ...or do you prefer to lay silently in the afterglow? Maybe you just like to Cum and Go...LOLOL!! I hope all of you had a great Friday and here's hoping for a great weekend! lustytaurus.LUSTYTAURUS  |
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A very strategic move on your part...as the faking at that moment goes...*smiles*... I am/was a silent one after wards...unless spoken too ...just enjoying the moment or afterglow... Have a great weekend as well 
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You poor bastard! My heart bleeds for you as you lie there in post-orgasmic bliss, staving off much needed sleep in order to feign interest in conversation. Yep, I'm much better off...having no fake conversations, and a complete lack of nookie. 
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7/8/2006 6:44 am |
To hell with the talk afterwards. Just hold me and let me come back to reality slowly. Talk is great foreplay but afterwards it is cuddle time.
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I enjoy just lying there enjoying the afterglow...sometimes a little whimsical chatter but mostly we are both exhausted and just want to drift off to sleep...feeling warm and peaceful. kind thoughts, Moonfire
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I am normally a non talker afterwards. I prefer to curl up against him put my head on his shoulder and run my fingers through his chest hair and drift off to a wonderful dream like slumber until he kisses me awake for the next round (I think it's because he can't take my snoring much longer and figures if he has to hear me I should at least be moaning and screaming his name and begging for more). LMSAO. Fuzzy ~~Fuzzy~~
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I don't remember.
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I'm with absolutelynormal! ~~~ I don't remember! 
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7/8/2006 9:20 am |
I'm with Sassy! Talk before...bask after! Power To FOK
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Hell I'm too busy looking for my inhaler to talk. Then they know I can't talk LOL
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I usually initiate joke telling til we fall asleep....... but if its a mid-day encounter...... splooge and run!!!
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7/8/2006 1:18 pm |
I agree with most of the ladies. I want to cuddle and sleep!
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Depends on the time of day. If it is morning sex, I jump out of bed and hit the showers. Afternoon sex, I jump out of bed and chase the kids. Evening sex, Jump out of bed and finish cooking dinner. Bedtime sex, too damn tired after sex to try and talk. Maybe you should try what we do. Everyday when we get home from work, we have a debriefing on the front porch for 30 minutes. He shares, I share. We are all happy and have more time for sex!
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I usually want to cuddle too....not talk. But I can remember in my younger married days, when my husband would come home from a month at sea, sometimes I'd tell him all the bad things that happened while he was gone right after sex......that way he really didnt give a damn! lol (and that was in the days that we didn't have email capabilities) And later when he yelled about the savings account dropping so low, I'd just remind him that I told him about it the very first night he was home! Scheming women...eh? 
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7/8/2006 2:22 pm |
well I'm lucky I usually knock her out and thats a real good thing roaming the cyber streets of blogland  
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Ass, gas, or grass, No one rides for free! Your payment for pleasure is a gab fest? Pay-up sucker. lol.
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I really like the afterglow thingy....BUT usually get the Cum & Go!
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if with hubby i usually get up and go back to my computer, if with a lover then i rest alittle and get ready for round 2,hehe wiggles butt ,just to wind you up I'm a   and i'm here to stay
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7/8/2006 5:17 pm |
i like the afterglow thing but if i see you falling asleep and i'm not finished...then you get talked at...
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7/8/2006 7:58 pm |
It can swing either way - depends on the mood - the person - the time of day, etc. But mostly I just switch on the tape recorder with the voice activated "Yes dear." 
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7/8/2006 9:14 pm |
I don't mind talkin after, as long as it's a good stirring conversation about round 2...
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There is usually some talk after but its usually about our time together. Communication is good when the topic is of interest. You can enjoy conversation after good sex if you are open to it. Its not that bad to talk, besides how do we know if the sex was good or bad if you aren't communicating? Now talking about other people you work with or family members can suck. That man could be laying there thinking to himself, "wow what a lousy fuck" and the woman could be thinking she was the best in the world for him, but no one knows if each are laying there pretending to have enjoyed what they just did. Sometimes conversation after sex can tell you a great deal about how that man felt about what just happen, I prefer to hear he didn't enjoy me rather than to go away thinking he did. I know some are probably thinking "well he must have enjoyed it if he wants to do it again or does a return visit" But what man will turn down pussy? Whether it was good or bad before, he wont say no, unless the woman was just totally not his type. sorry for the long comment. I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"  
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7/9/2006 3:53 am |
When I have sex again, i'll tell you what i do....
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7/9/2006 5:33 am |
Who has time to talk ? After we make love we make love again Dee
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7/9/2006 7:23 am |
It's usually just a lot of gasping for air and stupid babbling - silence is fine - the important thing is the cuddling - helps w/the decompression.
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After mind-blowing sex? Just stay in me, spooned together, caress me some as we doze off.
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