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What is an Alpha Submissive? Labels...Ick.
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What is an Alpha Submissive? Labels...Ick. I have listed myself here as an Alpha Submissive. I'm sure many of you are aware of what a submissive is, or have at least seen/read the horrendous 50 Shades. I have been part of the*Real* BDSM community for nearly 5 years and have always identified as submissive. In my previous "vanilla" life, my submissive tendencies were always peeking through. I am a caregiver, a pleaser, a hard worker, domestic, and love to serve. It's just who I am. There were times that my personality made me a target for abusers. Since finding the lifestyle I have grown in many ways. My many experiences and attendance to classes have taught me that being a submissive is never about being a doormat or getting myself into situations where my consent is in jeopardy. My many past Dominants have built me up (as they should) and helped me find my true, confident, powerful submissive that dwells within, and nurtured her to the forefront of my daily life. Now, with all this knowledge about myself and the life under my belt, I find that I identify as an alpha submissive. Some people love labels and some loathe them. Here is an instance where I find a label helpful to me. As an alpha sub, I am strong. I am a leader in my daily life and work life. I may seem outgoing and possibly Dominant. This is because I am confident, direct, have high standards, and command respect. I do not like to play games, and would rather find out quickly if I am interested in playing with someone rather than be lead around by my non-existent cunt hairs. Being alpha doesn't mean I don't identify as many other types of submissive: babygirl, domestic sub, slave, property... But 'alpha' is the house that all those rooms are built within. Master is the only Dominant I have met so far who knows how to handle me, what I need, and has completely earned my trust. In return I submit fully to Him and am His property. I will go to the moon and back should He ask it of me. I will always be His until He dismisses me. He knows that when He gives me tasks, responsibilities, and parameters that I will flourish - I will take charge of them and be the best that I can be. Currently we are seeking a second submissive to add to our play. The idea of playing with a Dominant AND an alpha sub may seem intimidating. However, I see it differently. As an alpha, I naturally seek to protect both another submissive's consent and boundaries, as well as mine and my Master's. I enjoy being a teacher and leading by example. This is an asset to all parties involved - especially for newer submissives who might be curious about having a real BDSM experience. I am also starting to feel a switch coming about in me. I am wanting to learn and try my hand at the Dominant role in D/s. Master has graciously agreed to let me apprentice under Him during some scenes. Is this because of my identity as alpha? Not necessarily. I think being alpha has allowed me to be extremely honest with myself and recognize that part of me... to not suppress it or be afraid to express that need to Master. It may be a long time before I reach Domme status, but I'll be quite pleased to achieve being a service Top and rope Top to start. Dominants and submissives: how do Y/you identify? Do Y/you believe in labels?  LadyMisfit  |
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10/2/2018 4:35 am |
I've played both sides of this coin Luv. It depends on the partner and the mood. Labels, I believe, are for weak minds that are too lazy to recognize the complexity of the world around them. What is "amazing" on Monday may be just "ok" by Friday. Depends on peoples attitude the labels they use anyway.  Jimmy B.My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.
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10/2/2018 9:10 am |
Looking back on one relationship that I had, I would have to label her an alpha submissive. I met her at a gangbang. She waited til the guys had disrobed and then stated who she wanted in which hole. She was ALPHA in her every day life. However, she was submissive in the bed. She always wanted it hard and wanted me to finish in her ass. One time after dating for months, she demanded that I choke her. Choking then became a regular activity.
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