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Right Or Wrong we all must do something....  

lookingforlustnu 50M
38 posts
8/30/2018 11:47 am
Right Or Wrong we all must do something....

As i have gotten older i find myself starting out a relationship hoping for the best as most do,but that sooner or later that turns into looking for the wrong's, the red flag's. I look to myself first and foremost and know i a damaged soul.I try to find courage to move forward but someday's it's hard. I have made it a goal or mission to never give up hope.I know i am not alone in this,but day's like today i feel like i am treading water, do i sink or do i keep swimming? Such is the Life of a older single person...


LookingForlustNU


lookingforlustnu 50M
16 posts
8/30/2018 11:48 am

First comment.... Sorry in advance for the Gloom LOL

LookingForlustNU


fkmeallnitelong9 53F  
2586 posts
8/30/2018 11:53 am

walk beside me..walk behind me...or walk with me.....just get the hell otta my way.....


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
8/30/2018 12:27 pm

Just don't stand still. Life is a series of paths. Occasionally, you will find a giant boulder set on the path. You have choices. Either find a way around it, climb over it, or find some way to just blow that MF up. The one thing that will not work is to sit down and say, damn that's a big rock.

By the way, the squirrel meme just have just become my new favorite. That was great.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
8/30/2018 1:06 pm

Life is like riding a bicycle, you have to keep moving to keep balance. You never know whats around the corner....


RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
8/30/2018 1:19 pm

To thine own self be true - springs to mind. Unless you intend to end it all, or can take a rocket to another planet, you have no choice but to "move forward". You should be armed by your experiences and have a good idea of what you want. 7 billion on the planet - you only need to find one.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/30/2018 1:45 pm

As i have gotten older i find myself starting out a relationship hoping for the best as most do, ..... Don't rack yourself with "Hope". Allow the next day to just be.

My observation of people in relationships, is that they concern themselves too much with the next day, or year, and not enough concern to the moment they actually have now.

Just do your best now. Tomorrow relies [turns out] greatly on what you do at this moment.

but that sooner or later that turns into looking for the wrong's, the red flag's. .... ... This should be from start... there is nothing wrong with being alert to red flags.

I look to myself first and foremost and know i am a damaged soul. ... Okay, so maintaining yourself is a job in itself, then maintaining a relationship with another person is going to be twice the work. Are you up to it... and [more importantly] are they?

I try to find courage to move forward but someday's it's hard. ... Some people have it tough like that.... hope you find the courage you need.

do i sink or do i keep swimming? ... That is entirely up to you.

Such is the Life of a older single person...I'd suggest , if you are able, try to establish better eating habits and establish a daily exercise you can do consistently, every day. This can elevate your mood and outlook.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
8/30/2018 2:25 pm

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    Life is like riding a bicycle, you have to keep moving to keep balance. You never know whats around the corner....
And there are tricycles for those who are unbalanced

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
8/30/2018 3:53 pm

Be glad you are not pushing up the daisies. Some folks did not get more chances. Makes the most of your assets and get out of the doldrums

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japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
8/30/2018 5:05 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    As i have gotten older i find myself starting out a relationship hoping for the best as most do, ..... Don't rack yourself with "Hope". Allow the next day to just be.

    My observation of people in relationships, is that they concern themselves too much with the next day, or year, and not enough concern to the moment they actually have now.

    Just do your best now. Tomorrow relies [turns out] greatly on what you do at this moment.

    but that sooner or later that turns into looking for the wrong's, the red flag's. .... ... This should be from start... there is nothing wrong with being alert to red flags.

    I look to myself first and foremost and know i am a damaged soul. ... Okay, so maintaining yourself is a job in itself, then maintaining a relationship with another person is going to be twice the work. Are you up to it... and [more importantly] are they?

    I try to find courage to move forward but someday's it's hard. ... Some people have it tough like that.... hope you find the courage you need.

    do i sink or do i keep swimming? ... That is entirely up to you.

    Such is the Life of a older single person...I'd suggest , if you are able, try to establish better eating habits and establish a daily exercise you can do consistently, every day. This can elevate your mood and outlook.
heathen...that's a nice advice...


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
8/30/2018 5:08 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    And there are tricycles for those who are unbalanced
golf cart..i am driving a golf cart...because that's what the most of the ol' folks in the florida would do...one with a flag at the back...lol...life is always peachy on gold cart, baby..


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
8/30/2018 6:31 pm

    Quoting japaneseass:
    golf cart..i am driving a golf cart...because that's what the most of the ol' folks in the florida would do...one with a flag at the back...lol...life is always peachy on gold cart, baby..
OK, I've got a club and a couple balls, wanna play some holes?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


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