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Why do girls go for bad boys?!?  

greatwhitestud78 45M
24 posts
8/26/2018 7:54 pm
Why do girls go for bad boys?!?


Why oh why oh why???

greatwhitestud78 45M
24 posts
8/26/2018 8:01 pm

I think every “nice guy” has wondered about this... I know I have. Usually, as you watch the girl you finally worked up the nerve to ask out... shoots you down to go out with the @&#hole that is already cheating on his current girlfriend with HER!?!

Many years, more than a couple beers, and beating my head against a wall... maybe a google search or two. I think I have an answer... some is borrowed from head sprinklers online... so consider the source!

Girls want to feel special, picking a bad boy and then turning him into a good guy proves how special she is and how important she is to him. Also, it allows her to live out a fairly text book romance novel story. This sounds kinda crazy when you boil it all down to one little sentence like that.

Is it true? Is it worth the excitement of the bad boy? Is it worth the abuse he puts her through? Is this why older or more experienced women start to ignore the bad boy and go for the “boring” “nice” guy?

Help me out ladies


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/26/2018 8:05 pm

been there done that and its not all its cracked up to be ..I much rather have an intelligent conversation with a retarded moose as opposed to being around a bad boy..they are too full of themselves and always cheating on whoever they tend to pretend to be with..lol


greatwhitestud78 replies on 8/26/2018 10:21 pm:
Lol, we certainly change from experience... maybe not always for the best, but always changing.

Soooo.... saying I’m the retarded moose?!? Lmao!

mufdiver69er2 63M  
1953 posts
8/26/2018 8:10 pm

god help em...they cant help themselves,it seems..

woop woop


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
8/26/2018 8:14 pm

I know many a self proclaimed 'nice guy' or 'good guy' has turned out to BE the a**hole. I know them personally and have watched them complain women don't want them because they are nice guys or good guys and given enough time I know why women don't want them. Most definitely their idea of a good guy is not what women call a good guy and they are in fact bonafide a**holes and I wouldn't go out with them if they were the last men on the planet. People that assume someone isn't going out with them because they are too nice often are not what they seem. I am not making a judgment on anyone, just voicing what I have seen first hand.


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
8/26/2018 8:21 pm

May I point out that as you are a married man that a man cheating isn't what most would call a good guy?? Again, I am not judging, but I am thinking if a wife catches her husband cheating and he is saying he wants GOOD sex insinuating his wife sucks in bed even though he is there doing it as well, why is he not helping HER to have a better time? Why is he doing what he knows will hurt her by cheating? You yourself used the line of a woman shoots you down to go out with the @&#hole that is already cheating on his current girlfriend with HER!?! Okay, so who is cheating on his wife and/or girlfriend yet thinks he is a good guy? Wouldn't that be the guy you just said was the a**hole??

I am again NOT judging, but I first hand know a man that claimed he was all that and more including he did everything in the house. His wife lost interest and he did the cooking, the cleaning, the shopping, everything... come to find out he lied about it all and was a total dick to her and did none of the above. HE thought he was this terrific catch. I just look at men that say they aren't getting any or not getting any good sex from their wives and think they are that bad boy I want to avoid. Just a thought.....


greatwhitestud78 replies on 8/26/2018 10:14 pm:
I think a great deal of what you say is probably very true, and certainly no offense taken. And while you are correct that I did refer to myself and once being a “nice guy” it was very much a past tense reference, as time and experience has certainly changed me. And I do not claim that the change is for the better.

Thank you for your honesty

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
8/26/2018 9:21 pm

Ahhh,The present day perils and the questions that
still haunt those adults in high school esk relationships.
And the classic! self abhorred girl and the bad boy!

Using more than all the road!


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