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How long does it take you to come?  

FresnoWoman 53F
269 posts
3/25/2019 12:27 am
How long does it take you to come?

Polls are fun to set up and I don't remember seeing this particular one being done.

So what's the typical a m o u n t of time it takes you to h i t the big O, by whatever the most effective method for you is?

AND DAMN, wish I could put more than options. Even a d o z e n would've helped. Anyway, of course some people are suffering from the side effects of prescriptions they have to take, or perhaps old injuries, physical or mental, might affect the time it takes for someone to . But I don't have enough options to break down by age brackets, or even non-binary/trans people, and this is not srs science anyway. Feel free to comment if you'd like to elaborate.

EDITED TO ADD: No more comments will be allowed. They're repeating themselves at this point. However, you're welcome to vote if you haven't already.
Female - less than 5 minutes
Female - 5 to 15 minutes
Female - 15 to 45 minutes
Female - more than 45 minutes
Female - I never/rarely come
Male - less than 5 minutes
Male - 5 to 15 minutes
Male - 15 to 45 minutes
Male - more than 45 minutes
Male - I never/rarely come


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
3/25/2019 12:34 am

Magic comment.


stammer50 48M
22 posts
3/25/2019 12:55 am

depends on alot of things lol


FresnoWoman replies on 3/25/2019 1:05 am:
For this poll, whatever a person gets off quickest to should determine how they vote. But, not srs science anyway.

LuvMusicSexMagic 35M

3/25/2019 1:04 am

it does depend on a lot


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
3/25/2019 1:07 am

And re-reading this post, apparently a m o u n t is another censored word. Sheesh! Ridiculous! "Typical of time" doesn't really make much sense, does it.


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
3/25/2019 2:34 am

Depends. If I'm with someone then I never have. If I'm on my own and it's a DIY job, then I prefer to take my time and I can go for 60 minutes quite easily.

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Likes2use 42M/40F
18 posts
3/25/2019 3:01 am

Him: less then 5 minutes if it's our first round.
Her: less then 5 minutes.
If we are masturbating it takes us both 15-30 minutes.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
3/25/2019 3:47 am

The most effective method or the most enjoyable method?
If it is the most effective and it's a race, (some prize money at stake 🏆💵💰), then it's my hands and I think, with the right motivation - under 5 minutes. Although, with edging and a patient hand, I can extend that past 45 min... lol I loose patience after a while. 😊 Don't you? 😱
But if it's enjoyment I'm seeking... then give me a vagina and the woman attached to it... 😍 and I'll easily meander in and out for an hour or more.... I'll take that option, any time.
So... how about you? How long does it take you? 🤔😘

Oh and by the way... all those messed up words.. the easiest fix, is to put a period in the word.. so amounts.. becomes a.mounts . Yep... it's stupid all right. I.m p.retty f.ed u.p my.self... 😁😘
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FresnoWoman replies on 3/25/2019 2:29 pm:
The most effective method, as in how fast can you come is what I was aiming for. Anybody would lose patience after a while, I'm sure, but perhaps the edging folks are fine with taking their sweet time about it.

I'll keep in mind the tip about using a period, although it seems using spaces works as well. The original post had the numbers ten and twelve, though, where I was complaining about the number of options. Those got dropped.

CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
3/25/2019 6:55 am

Shouldn't the real question be - how hot is my partner?

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FresnoWoman replies on 3/25/2019 2:30 pm:
That's a different poll topic. And people find all kinds of things hot in a partner, highly subjective, whereas "how long does it take you to come" can be answered more subjectively.

Allhard4u50 62M
1725 posts
3/25/2019 7:27 am

Idk, it really depends on a lot of things.....
1. How many times you've been intimate with the partner
2. How much alcohol you've been drinking
3. How 'turned on' you are
And many more


pett2224 72M

3/25/2019 8:28 am

as I get older,,,i'm lasting longer,,,,depending on how horny my wife is,,,,if she really cranks it up,,,i lose control,,,which is not a bad thing


originaltreeman 54M

3/25/2019 10:59 am

I noticed that when i am having sex with a woman that i think is really pretty (mentally or physically) i last MUCH longer than when i am with a woman that i think is not.


FresnoWoman replies on 3/25/2019 2:36 pm:
Really. I'd have thought it'd be the other way around.

looking4u69ca 63M  
4322 posts
3/25/2019 12:09 pm

A sober blowjob gets me of reasonably quick. Add alcohol and a condom to missionary sex and I might not get off at all. Not from lack of trying. Need to spice it up a bit.


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
3/25/2019 2:34 pm

Hey, I encourage more women to come and vote. Only four female voters so far.


Newbe509 47M

3/25/2019 9:39 pm

It depends on the person..


mrplumber2016 61M

3/26/2019 10:31 am

It mostly depends on the amount of foreplay for me anyhow.


AliOrbit 67F
624 posts
3/26/2019 11:03 am

Just voted. I am multiorgasmic so it starts for me in under 5 minutes.....


FresnoWoman replies on 3/27/2019 10:35 am:
Thank you for voting! I'm happy to get more female voters as well. And maybe there should be a poll for multiorgasming. I could only pick 10 options for the original poll.

12211male 60M/54F

3/26/2019 1:45 pm

Your poll doesn’t specify how orgasm is achieved..orally she’ll tire out first..intercourse wise at least 45 minutes..it can be a curse at times..


FresnoWoman replies on 3/27/2019 10:39 am:
I said "by the most effective method" as I know the specific stimulus/i towards climaxing varies by individual.

fitguychi122 39M

3/26/2019 2:18 pm

Just def depends on activities and level of drunkness lol.


BigDick4All777 25M
4 posts
3/26/2019 5:29 pm

It usually takes me 20 to 30 minutes sometimes longer if its good pussy


lookn4fun688 60M  
21 posts
3/26/2019 6:23 pm

I like being edged for a long time typically its more than 45 minutes, even hours. I can cum sooner (10-15 minutes) if the time is not available but what i prefer is the long edging orgasm.


SWMOpnp2 39M

3/26/2019 7:08 pm

it just depends sometimes...


Cccsss44 49M

3/26/2019 8:56 pm

It’s normally 30 mins or longer. It’s been fun learning to control my cumming. Plus it’s nice that my partner cums frist


marc1venture 57M

3/26/2019 9:06 pm

It depends on a number of factors from a medical perspective and many factors depend upon a partner that reciprocates her desire. Us guys are visual, women prefer a romantic story, but lighting, scent, erotic mood all contribute to the ultimate outcome.


funasianma1e 49M
11551 posts
3/26/2019 9:19 pm

depends on how long before last sexual encounter, how turned on, if there was any teasing, foreplay etc....

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1papa510 65M
6 posts
3/26/2019 10:47 pm

Really depends on mood and lots of other variables. Anywhere from 5 minutes to an hour or more... Good foreplay extends that 5 minutes to 20 minutes or more... isn't that what is supposed to happen?


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