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Is She a Slut or Sexy?
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Is She a Slut or Sexy? I guess I get confused by the many ways the word “Slut” is used today. I see and hear it used in so many ways. Sometimes derogatory, sometimes complimentary, sometimes it means how a woman acts and sometimes it’s about how she dresses. So “Slut” can be used as a noun, a pronoun, verb, adjective or adverb. Most often on here I take it as a compliment because I believe most men like a woman is dressed in Slut style. Of course, this usually doesn’t apply their wife or serious Girlfriend but they seem like at women they don’t know when they are wearing something revealing. This gives men ideas of fantasies. This brings me my question, Is She a Slut or Sexy? Is it the way a woman acts in public that makes her a Slut? I’ve seen women being somewhat of a tease or very friendly in bar or club that some men may think is acting like a Slut. I may even be guilty of this in the past but I assure that my intention was just have a good time be Sexy and never was trying lure a guy into my bed. Especially a guy I just met in a bar. Some women are just enjoying to moment more than others. Believe me, today’s women just don’t pick up strange men anymore. Guys go bars in hopes of getting laid are most often disappointed. There are the rare exceptions but this is the 21st Century and women are much more aware of the risks involved in having first meet sex with a stranger. Is it the way a woman dresses? me, this never is cause be called a Slut. Because a woman dresses in a tight dress or a low cut dress she is not doing this propel men in a sexual frenzy. She is allowing people see more of her body because she is proud of it. Pride in a well toned body is not an evil act and not something to be shamed for. This is just another case of men not understanding women at all. Just as men like to show off their bulging muscles, women like to show off their best asset also. However, men believe their own display is acceptable but a woman’s is Slutty. BTW, women with more modest bodies often tend to disparage women showing their more developed bodies also. I guess this is partially defensive. While on the question of Slutty vs. Sexy, allow me to tell you what has happened to me personally on several occasions. Some men at my Pictures or Videos and I get these comments from different men, “You’re so sexy” or “I love your sexy ” or this, “I love your Slutty ” or “I like your Slutty style”. picture, different ways it’s looked at. Is there such a fine between Sexy and Slutty that the words are interchangeable? I don’t know. I see a very significant difference. But I will say this in my own case. I had sent years and a lot of have the body I now have. I’m proud of my body and do at times show it off. I don’t consider myself a Slut in a derogatory sense for this. I would much rather be called Sexy than Slutty, unless when I want to be a Slut. Jan  |
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You're right - like most words, it's all in how it is used. For me, it is a compliment and means a lady that: * - Likes sex * - Is good at it * - Is not shy about admitting either point. Fortunately, I know several sluts. Another alternate definition I like: And for whatever reason, there do seem to be a preponderance of ladies matching my definition of a slut that also happen to be southern. Sleepless Nights Car Play Fun K and L, on HNW [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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I say Pretty and Sexy, just like you!!
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You're right - like most words, it's all in how it is used. For me, it is a compliment and means a lady that: * - Likes sex * - Is good at it * - Is not shy about admitting either point. Fortunately, I know several sluts. Another alternate definition I like: And for whatever reason, there do seem to be a preponderance of ladies matching my definition of a slut that also happen to be southern. Sleepless Nights Car Play Fun K and L, on HNW [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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Well written and very thoughtful and you've earned to be whatever you wish. I might add that women often don;t dress or be sluts to get men...most can at the drop of a hat anyway. Often it is to gain a competitive edge over other women which often does more for their own self purpose and psyche. Really appreciate your point in this and your insight. All the best...Tina
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6/22/2019 6:31 pm |
sexy for sure
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6/22/2019 4:57 pm |
You are just plain sexy
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