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Blogs > JaniceJanes > Jan's Thoughts

What I Won’t Do  

JaniceJanes 49T  
707 posts
4/15/2019 10:53 pm
What I Won’t Do

These are some of the things I get asked repeatedly I just won’t do, no matter what.

Share my Phone Number -

I have been caught twice by my Partner getting hard to explain phone calls from other men. Once, a guy who promised to call only at certain times was drunk, call me while I was busy and left a very explicate message Richard heard. Another time while I was bathing, Richard answered my phone and asked the guy what he wanted. He said he wanted to have sex again with me.
Both these incidents got me in trouble and I will not go through again. These two guys broke promises they had made to . So from now on, I will not share my number because some guys can’t keep a promise.

Chat with Someone Who is Having Multiple Conversations -

I believe each person I chat with deserves my full attention. I really get bothered when I realized the person chatting with is having multiple conversations. This often is indicated by excessively slow response time or getting a a confusing message followed by “Sorry, wasn’t meant for you”.
As soon as I detect you are talking with others the same time, you are gone.

Host My Apartment -

Security here is very, very good. All visitors names and who they are going to visit are recorded in a Visitors Log, even Delivery people. There is also a to the Apartment to be visited to confirm the Visitor is expected. Anyone living in Apartment can view the Log. So, as much I would like
to host certain people, this is just not possible.

CAM -

Since I do not live alone, there is always the chance of getting caught while on CAM. Besides, in my Opinion, being on CAM just doesn’t lead to a relationship. It’s a Hi Tech form of Exhibitionism. My pictures and Videos are as far as going. They have a more lasting quality.

’s basically is my “Do Not Do List”. There are other ways to do these things.

Jan

Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
4/16/2019 9:47 am

 I don't blame you. It's always better meeting in a public place, well lit with other people around.


JaniceJanes 49T  
16 posts
4/16/2019 9:20 am

 I was advised that my pictures didn't show much discretion so I changed my STATUS to more accurately reflect that I respect a contact's privacy.


SirPeterStone 67M
159 posts
4/16/2019 6:40 am

 Very sensible Do Not Do list,

So people that want to communicate with you, either here (Chat or Message) or regular email.

I seem to recall that you had a Status about the importance of discretion in all things.


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