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Words that now Bother Me
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Words that now Bother Me I know that in today’s world and especially on these Meeting Sites, people speak in code and used short little terms we all are familiar with. It just makes communications and verbalization faster and easier on the internet. BUT, there are some words I just don’t like and regret every time I use or hear them. For example; SUB- I understand it means either to be sub-domainate (yielding to anything instructed to do) or prefer the bottom position during love making. It’s just not a Term I appreciate being applied to me. I just don’t want to be a SUB anything. I want to be considered a EQUAL. TOP - When this term is used for taking the Dominate position during Intercourse it just so misleading. I assume when being asked this, the inquirer is really asking if I would get behind a man and penetrate his ass with my penis. Yes, TOP is brief and somewhat to the point but why not ask if I would like to make love to them. If you TOP some guy aren’t you making him the SUB? Again, why can’t we be EQUALS in Love Making. I don’t want to be in charge during sex. I want to be a PARTNER. SWITCH - Not a real bad term but isn’t that what we all do most the time during SEX? I mean the words SUB and TOP take on a Full Time role meaning to me. Whereas SWITCH is the real GIVE and TAKE that is normally part of LOVE MAKING. Someone who is a self described SWITCH just seems normal to me. Nothing special. PLAYER or PLAYERS - Anyone who calls themselves a PLAYER is just not serious about whats involved here. SEX or MAKING LOVE is not PLAY. We have fun watching people play a game but the people in the game are SERIOUS. I’m just against anyone who wants to PLAY at SEX. Sharing your body with another person is not PLAY. I wish people would not demean PASSION by calling it PLAY. Bi-CURIOUS - OK, I get it that some people have thoughts about having SEX with someone who is different from their everyday persona or gender but if you are truly CURIOUS, do something to resolve your curiosity. There is absolutely no reason for anyone to be CURIOUS. I would prefer that someone tell me straight out what they desire instead of saying they are just CURIOUS. When I’m CURIOUS, I have to satisfy my CURIOSITY. If you see something on a menu that make you CURIOUS, you try it. CURIOSITY gone, you like it or you don’t. Same with life and sex. TRANNY - Yes, i use this word a lot when talking to others but I only do it as a attempt to talk in a language they understand. TRANS anything means going from one place or point to another plane or point. I arrived at the place and point in life where I plan to be the rest of my life so I am no longer a TRANS anything. I am Janice Janes, no longer TRANS this or that. Please thing of me as being in the ARRIVAL Lounge. Journey complete. Just wanted get this off my Hormone Enhanced chest. Jan PS - I really should take some of these words out of my own Profile. |
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I like what you said ,my name if I could change would be the first to go.the name was .she up many years ago when I was finding my self.I am more of a switch like you said lovemaking goes. Both ways. Thanks again love your blog
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