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my next brain dump- being stood up  

BiLady4Me2Day 55F
58 posts
6/25/2018 9:31 am
my next brain dump- being stood up
What is the point of being on a dating/ sex site if your going to stand someone up? I don't get the concept...is it anger? I hear it over and over (from guys and women).......so what's the point? Are you mad? why take it out on the poor unsuspecting peeps on the site?
Its hurtful............Thought it was going well, its not like we're asking to date (or maybe they are- and hopefully they are being honest), I for one know I am totally transparent in what I am looking for.....I'm sure were wanting the same thing......you expressed that you were wanting what I was......is it fear? This is the place to be totally transparent without judgment (if they are judging you, the conversation probably stops?) ..........put it all out there and then worry about it after you meet! That's where the blushing and the wow so here we are happens..... I get that I and others can be intimidating but.... really? Why go there in the first place? If you didn't think you had a chance then why message and waste everyone's time.........

I for one am an open book, I'll tell it like it is and put what I want out there (sorry- I'm blunt and too the point with no filter--wait, NO!! I am not sorry)....Is that too much? I also respond to messages right away and was told not too--it looks desperate.....Ok that's a game this almost 50 yr old doesn't want to play! .......... (fyi- my memory is bad and if I wait, I'll probably not respond because I will have forgotten LO.

It may or may not be about me, but I just don't get it.......why pursue if you have no intentions?
OPOralLover 53M
32 posts
7/1/2018 5:46 am

 I've pondered this as well. I've heard this from lots of beautiful women such as yourself.

My personal theory is that guys (and maybe women too) want the hunt and the accomplishment of getting the date set. But when the time comes and they have to back up all the stuff they have claimed, they chicken out.

I'm sorry you got stood up. That would not be the case if you were to agree to meet me.


forddvr51 72M
60 posts
6/27/2018 6:04 am

 Whoever would stand you up is a total idiot.


milfhuntkinky 61M
41 posts
6/25/2018 5:55 pm

 I never stand up a woman , I do not want it done to me , so I will never do it to her,, ,, the Golden rule always works best ,,


phiemicol 62M/62F  
78 posts
6/25/2018 3:29 pm

 Anyone who stand you up should be jailed!


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