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How to inspire that first conversation.  

Pmfunone262 66M
22 posts
5/15/2021 5:33 pm
How to inspire that first conversation.


Well as you can guess from the title, my ability to start a conversation seems to be inadequate. So I am looking to improve on my ability to , or maybe even talk to people, that one opening line that will inspire the other person to converse with escapes my understanding.

Since trying to , it can not be my breath. I hope.

So it must be in the questions I use start a .

Feel free chime in on the perfect one liner.

soon?

seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
5/16/2021 7:11 am

I like it when someone has read my profile... I appreciate standard members can't so that's a bit tricky. "Hi how are you?" is a pretty standard opener. don't go with "fancy a fuck"
Also.. it shows people online when they are not... having logged off or never actually been on line that day


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
5/16/2021 6:15 am

Sometimes it will not matter what you say. If you do not meet the preferences the person wants the person could say not interested or not answer. Some might change their mind. Nobody has been able to get me to. You can meet the preferences and want the same things but if have a dick picture some will not be interested.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
5/16/2021 3:37 am

Most women want a single man. I think you are looking for a rare find. But, some women are ok with it but I am guessing not many.


dreamsinpixels 45M
3 posts
5/16/2021 2:33 am

Good question actually, and I'm assuming you mean here on Senior Sizzle. As a gen x single guy scratching my head as well, I've noticed the lack of contact or unanswered attempts. Bad news? (other than my aging pics or lack thereof) There are a lot more of us! Still less women than men although that's probably going up, maybe balancing out. Good news is...more of us! Again. There aren't any line's that work, or formulas for this really and just like going out there right now it's just chance. initiate more conversations, chat rooms are going to be the best way to meet someone as the girls are getting far too many messages to read now. Profile's are more of a reference now. It is definitely frustrating, I can attest to that now on my first year being single, but it just takes a little more time communicating and a lot more patience. You can use the niche sites, if you have one, or have a particular "thing" you like, looking for. Best of luck though, and your definitely not alone.


Mark61Smith 63M

5/15/2021 8:21 pm

Put a dick pic on your profile. I seems to work most of the time.
Oh try this.
What difference does it make what I look like when I'm eating your pussy, you won't be looking at my face anyway!!
At least BiggLala will respond to that.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
5/15/2021 8:02 pm

There is sometimes something in the woman's profile that you can use as a basis for getting a conversation started. However, you also need to fit within the woman's preferences if she has indicated what they are. For instance you and I are over 60 - that seems to limit the number of women who may be interested. But many do not indicate age preferences.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
5/15/2021 7:09 pm


. . . maybe you can cop something from dale carnegie or tony robbins


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