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Can Bouzouki MelodieS and GallonS of WhinE... SavE A DatE... ðĪâ
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Can Bouzouki MelodieS and GallonS of WhinE... SavE A DatE... ðĪâ Her brilliant smile and those twinkling eyes had been the alluring snare. I have no CLUE what she saw in me. But there we were, anchored at a vibrant Greek bistro over on Montreal's Fairmount Street.  "I'll take the 'Seafood Pikilia' and a tiny 'Greek Salad' with a small bowl of tzatziki, on the side. Oh, and I'll have another bottle of white wine. But don't serve the meal just yet." Then, she turned to me and flashed those luminous teeth; I grinned. "You want some too? Ok â TWO bottles of white wine," she concluded. And THAT'S how our first date had evolved. I excused myself and headed towards the bathroom but veered into the kitchen. (*listen, I'm not a total asshole, but I'd had enough.*) I waved to the cooks, laid a couple of twenties on the stainless steel counter, and walked out the back door. Slipping through that dark alley, I turned towards the street and reached into my blazer for my phone. For fuck's sake! In my haste, I'd left THAT precious hardware on the leather bench seat â back at the restaurant. I stopped in my tracks and turned around. She DID have dazzling incisors and those gleaming eyeballs. But there was more whine coming; a lot more. *Ugh* Second chances rarely work â or do they? (*addendum : so what do you want me to say? that things worked out; they didn't. it was a peaceful failure. *)  ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O |
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A warm smile and sparkling eyes â are the first traits attracting me. THAT, and a quick wit. I think there's always hope for a second chance if there's some mutual attraction. ð (*if she has a nice bum, it's a bonus.*) The 'deal breakers' for me are; a conflicting political POV, and a fickle food veto. NO second chances on THOSE! ðŪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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What attracts you, and what deal-breakers blow it up? ðĪ ðŪâ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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My deal-breakers are no sense of humour, poor body hygiene and right-wing politics!
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One of the last people I was strongly attracted to, had great conversational skills. Lots of give and take, a good listener, and convincingly curious about me and what made me tick. Too often it seems like people fall into one of the other extremes - either so reticent that it's like pulling teeth to get them talking, or one of those nonstop talkers where you can't get a word in edgewise.  
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I'm always attracted to a great smile ... if he has dimples BONUS! needless to say bad teeth (not necessarily crooked but broken, missing, diseased) are a deal breaker. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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Old, ugly, married, poor. I know, I know, alone for the rest of my life. ðĪĶââïļ
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My deal-breakers are no sense of humour, poor body hygiene and right-wing politics! Should I ask? Feel free to gross us out. ðŪ â â â ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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8/17/2021 2:49 pm |
My situation was different, I had a woman that walked out on me, while just 5 min on the date. I guess people have their reasons!
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One of the last people I was strongly attracted to, had great conversational skills. Lots of give and take, a good listener, and convincingly curious about me and what made me tick. Too often it seems like people fall into one of the other extremes - either so reticent that it's like pulling teeth to get them talking, or one of those nonstop talkers where you can't get a word in edgewise. So true about the art of having a conversation. I think I've been guilty of all three styles, although my preference is 'content' as opposed to silence. Don't most people fear silence, and that's why they blather? ðĪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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So true about sense of humour, and that whining stuff. But can't compatibility in the bedroom be cultivated, and shared? ðĪ Can't you train and educate your lover to acquire your tastes? Or is it a lost cause?, ðŪââ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I'm always attracted to a great smile ... if he has dimples BONUS! needless to say bad teeth (not necessarily crooked but broken, missing, diseased) are a deal breaker. Imagine the surprise when that mask is lifted? You make such a good point. Implants are the latest craze. As long as I don't end up looking like one of those old people jutting jaw, with the oversized teeth of a twenty year old. Hmmm... Anyway... Any loose or messed up teeth? ðĪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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My situation was different, I had a woman that walked out on me, while just 5 min on the date. I guess people have their reasons! That, is like a kick in the head. How was your psyche after THAT? ðĪ Then again, she musta had issues, and drama, and stuff she was hiding. It's all good, Isn't it better to know, in the first five minutes, rather than in the last five years? ðĪ ðââ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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8/17/2021 3:54 pm |
Sounds like my last meet before the Pandammit....... She had been at the restaurant awhile before I got there, three empty's on the table..... Two more while we waited for our food. Then she toppled out of her chair, the waiter caught her! Ah..this happens often., he says! Hmmmmm, didn't see that in her profile...... What do u do, the wait staff had it handled I left $40 on the table... Having to drag them to the room kinda takes the edge off.... As I got in my truck I heard EMS turning the corner......
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Sounds like my last meet before the Pandammit....... She had been at the restaurant awhile before I got there, three empty's on the table..... Two more while we waited for our food. Then she toppled out of her chair, the waiter caught her! Ah..this happens often., he says! Hmmmmm, didn't see that in her profile...... What do u do, the wait staff had it handled I left $40 on the table... Having to drag them to the room kinda takes the edge off.... As I got in my truck I heard EMS turning the corner...... It's what it is, right? I'm sure you have fonder memories to recall, right?ðĪ Ya have to step up and say no sometimes. I hear you. ââ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Old, ugly, married, poor. I know, I know, alone for the rest of my life. ðĪĶââïļ The fruit section of your grocery store and anywhere else men linger â might be your homeland. It's a numbers game. You never know, do you? Look helpless and ask for advice about how to gauge the ripeness of an avocado ðĨ. Just a thought. Just a thought... ðââð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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hahahaha you forget your phone on the bench.lol. ohoh .i'm a extremely picky eater,lol..... deal breaker is facial hair,,,drugs of any kind....bad teeth,,,,,big drinker.
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It's not a date if you don't have sex with her.
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Politics and humour are givens. Now that hygiene thingy? I've never met anyone where THAT was an issue. Should I ask? Feel free to gross us out. ðŪ â â â
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8/18/2021 4:12 am |
When you were laying out the 20s I thought you were paying them to rush the meal to the table, when I read you were leaving I literally "laughed out loud". I would never have the nerve. 
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HA on the Romans!! my deal breaker are the folks on here demanding a pic swap. i'm a chatter. not that i don't have photos.... you've read enough of my blog so you've seen them when i share them. but i will be honest and up front that i don't pic swap. and then the demands come... Sherman and i do not have the same political views. i just smile and nod.
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A manâs overall appearance will catch my attention, especially a twinkle in his eyes and an engaging smile. Turn-offs are the inability to speak engagingly & intelligently and poor manners.
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hahahaha you forget your phone on the bench.lol. ohoh .i'm a extremely picky eater,lol..... deal breaker is facial hair,,,drugs of any kind....bad teeth,,,,,big drinker. I can understand the teeth. I guess you don't like spicy food? We all have different things on our list. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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It's not a date if you don't have sex with her. If sex isn't achieved and you didn't call it a date, what do you call it? ðĪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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When you were laying out the 20s I thought you were paying them to rush the meal to the table, when I read you were leaving I literally "laughed out loud". I would never have the nerve. The second half of the date went better... sort of. lol ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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HA on the Romans!! my deal breaker are the folks on here demanding a pic swap. i'm a chatter. not that i don't have photos.... you've read enough of my blog so you've seen them when i share them. but i will be honest and up front that i don't pic swap. and then the demands come... Sherman and i do not have the same political views. i just smile and nod. Kool... I don't have the pic swap issue but I imagine it would be annoying. Yay Romans... lol ð ðŪ ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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