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I Called Her... By Your Name... ðŸŒđ  

Paulxx001 67M
8732 posts
4/10/2020 7:59 pm

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12/25/2020 5:04 am

I Called Her... By Your Name... ðŸŒđ

I phoned my sister-in-law today ; just to see how things were going. And while we were talking, I called her, by YOUR name - twice.

My brother's wife is a fun woman to talk with. She's intelligent and quick. I'd asked her about a recipe... and trivia... and I shared my tiny rant about shopping. Her replies flowed back, then finally concluded as she paused, and asked me a question

"Who's Debra?"

And it dawned on me ; I don't know. I've never met you. But, you're always on my mind. Are you just an illusion?

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Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/10/2020 8:00 pm

How do you manage after, you've called someone... by the wrong name? ðŸĪ”


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/10/2020 8:01 pm

Is there someone on your mind? 🍷🍷😎


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/10/2020 8:07 pm

Oh... FFS .... Cheers 🍷🍷 Anyone going nuts or are we all comfortably numb? ðŸĪ” 🍷🍷😎❗âĪïļ


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
4/10/2020 8:26 pm

You apologize and move on, and who is Debra.. I have never done that luckily..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
4/10/2020 8:56 pm

You laugh about it, you pretend it never happened or you apologize. I think it depends on who you are speaking to and what kind of relationship you have. It has happened to me on both sides of the conversation. And in these times, yes someone is on my mind and hopefully, he knows it.


frank19880903lai 35M
22 posts
4/10/2020 9:50 pm

just an illusion?


tsn4fun2 48M/46F  
257 posts
4/10/2020 11:18 pm

Sounds like “Debra” did something spectacular for you and neither one of y’all seemed to have caught it. Funny how the mind picks up on things... that is how fantasies are born. You start subconsciously thinking about it and it fills in the blanks. Then the dreams start and if it is something that you’re already longing for, it flourishes. I hope you find your “Debra” ðŸĨ°
Could be a beautiful thing!

Just make sure your sister-n-law doesn’t misconstrue the situation! Your brother might not appreciate that too much! 😎😁


flannel_light 61F
4586 posts
4/11/2020 12:39 am

I almost done that once when I was with a guy having sex and good thing I caught myself.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


mc_justmc 63M

4/11/2020 5:36 am

That's funny, and don't call me Debra.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/11/2020 6:54 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    You apologize and move on, and who is Debra.. I have never done that luckily..
Apologize? ðŸĪ” Or pretend you never uttered another's name?
Yeah... to start a story and try to explain it, might be a challenge. ðŸ˜Ū Happy Saturday ❗😎🍷🍷


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/11/2020 6:57 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    You laugh about it, you pretend it never happened or you apologize. I think it depends on who you are speaking to and what kind of relationship you have. It has happened to me on both sides of the conversation. And in these times, yes someone is on my mind and hopefully, he knows it.
Good options - all of them.
Ya think he knows? ðŸĪ” I imagine you can't do much in these conditions - to be closer than a thought away.
Or... have ya thought of wrapping yourself up in stretch wrap and making a road trip to see him? 🍷🍷😎ðŸ˜Ū


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/11/2020 6:59 am

Like the song - "Ooo... ooo.
. ooo...
Ahh... Ahhh.. ðŸŽķ


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/11/2020 7:00 am

    Quoting  :

You forget their name? ðŸĪ”
I do as well... but I try and focus when it comes to family members, sort of. ðŸ˜Ū 🍷🍷😎


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/11/2020 7:03 am

    Quoting tsn4fun2:
    Sounds like “Debra” did something spectacular for you and neither one of y’all seemed to have caught it. Funny how the mind picks up on things... that is how fantasies are born. You start subconsciously thinking about it and it fills in the blanks. Then the dreams start and if it is something that you’re already longing for, it flourishes. I hope you find your “Debra” ðŸĨ°
    Could be a beautiful thing!

    Just make sure your sister-n-law doesn’t misconstrue the situation! Your brother might not appreciate that too much! 😎😁
THAT... was am astute analysis and closer to the truth than you know.
My brother? ðŸĪ” After all these years... he's used to me but THAT'S a great safety tip! 👍 🍷🍷😎


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/11/2020 7:04 am

    Quoting flannel_light:
    I almost done that once when I was with a guy having sex and good thing I caught myself.
Ooo.... it IS a good thing you didn't use another's name.
Ya think he mighta been ticked off? ðŸĪ” ðŸ˜Ū🍷🍷😎❗


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/11/2020 7:07 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    That's funny, and don't call me Debra.
My brain drifted. It happens.. I guess.
The second time, I was annoyed with myself... and my sister-in-law is SO nosy. ❗🙄


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/11/2020 7:09 am

    Quoting  :

Good for you. 😊 👍
I hope you don't slip up. Of course... now that it's on your mind...
lol 😂. Ever try to and avoid something you know you should, but then it comes out accidentally?
It's all good. 🍷🍷😁


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/11/2020 7:14 am

    Quoting  :

Lucky you 🍀 Must be something in my brain DNA. It's happened to me a few times. Replacing a person's name that is.
Happy Saturday ❗ 😎 🍷 🍷


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/11/2020 7:16 am

    Quoting  :

Wow. That IS funny and creepy... lol 😂
Then again... he'd never know. Omg ðŸĪ”
Ahhh... the mind and the games it plays on us. 🍷🍷😁


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/13/2020 3:51 pm

    Quoting  :

Never? You're better than me. I think there's a wire twisted upstairs (where my brain connects to my mouth), because I've done that before. Vivid imagination?
Of course... It's happened with my kids - once or three times - but that's different, right? ðŸ˜Ū 🍷🍷😎


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