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Couples... Have Conversations... And Make Plans... And Have Sex... 😊 ðŸ”Ĩ  

Paulxx001 67M
8732 posts
10/24/2019 12:03 pm

Last Read:
6/10/2020 5:35 pm

Couples... Have Conversations... And Make Plans... And Have Sex... 😊 ðŸ”Ĩ

I was part of a couple ... once. We'd have sex from time to time. I also remember (when we weren't 'doing it' ), the reassuring warmth I'd feel, as we'd playfully snuggle up next to each other and discuss new plans and adventures. As I think back now, many 'great ideas' - went south. I recall one day...

She finally found the tennis rackets, that were lost in the closet. She looked at me gleefully and smiled. "We should see if Greg and Andrea wanna play doubles."

"That's a great idea," I replied. "It will be..."

"... fucking STUPID ...! " she shouted angrily at me (drenched in sweat), hours later. We'd lost seven straight sets.

Then there was the time, I'd dug up the picnic basket. I had always boasted how much fun, picnics in the forest were. I carefully packed it up with wine and cheese and all sorts of goodies... and proudly announced to her ; "Now I'll show you exactly why ..."

"... I HATE... fucking mosquitoes," she yelled at me (that afternoon), while smacking another one off her thigh." Did you even bring, the fucking spray? Why do I have to do everything for you?"

Or the moment I pulled out our tent, from under some clutter in the garage. "Are you thinking what I'm thinking ?" I looked at her.

She giggled back at me and excitedly replied; "Camping is sooo much..."

"... fucking BULLSHIT !" I bellowed at her, as we drove out of that monsoon flooded camp site.

On another occasion, I had a well intentioned notion - to take her fishing. She was eager to try it out. I prepared her for the experience ; "Wait ... till we get out on that beautiful, long pier."

"I know," she laughed back at me, while hurriedly packing up the car. "I've got a feeling, that this is gonna be..."

"... shittier than I thought... it EVER could be," she whined to me after many fishless hours, in the blazing summer sun.

And of course, I'll always think back fondly, to the year we decided to host - Christmas dinner - at our home. I looked at her, as I helped set the beautiful table. Carols played in the background, as I spoke ; "You know? I'm happy we're having everyone, over here. "

She lovingly leaned over and kissed me and replied ; "Me too. I am genuinely excited about getting everyone ..."

"... to fucking leave , as SOON as possible," she hissed to me, later that evening. The turkey, hadn't been served yet.

That's the way, a lot of our adventures worked out. Couples have dialogues and make plans. Single people have monologues and just - do it. I don't mind the monologues. At least I'm not hearing the words - ' Go fuck yourself' - as often.


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You must have your own favorite conversations, adventures and some good ideas - that went bad... right? ðŸĪ”
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Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/24/2019 12:03 pm

Well... Those were just some of the ones, I had. There were tons of others. But ya know what? Eventually we'd sit back and laugh about it. What else could we do? ðŸĪ” 😊


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/24/2019 12:03 pm

Although... there was this one time. Ugh... Never mind. THAT'S, a story for another time. ðŸ˜ķðŸ˜Ū


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
10/24/2019 12:20 pm

Oh so funny. My fave from married days was when he said invite friends over, and “he” would do the cooking. I can relax. But...his cooking was sitting by the grill while the meat cooked, drinking beer, talking sports with the guys, while “I” set the table, made and put together the appetizers and side dishes, made sure everyone is served and then, cleaning it all up while he slept it off on the couch. Yep, marital bliss.


rickshot5 38M

10/24/2019 12:47 pm

Couple conversation with other courses or with other single girl or boy both can be enjoyale


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/24/2019 3:25 pm

People always , and I mean always, over romanticize being a committed couple. So much life time is wasted pursuing that, and doing that "Together" crap.


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
10/24/2019 3:34 pm

um...yah...and this is why we don't do anything together anymore...and that's why we are still together, maybe??? lol...


Zitu69 28M
9 posts
10/24/2019 3:44 pm

Jackob University er naam ba chinta to mathatei aanar kono karon nai


hereforthefun242 32M

10/24/2019 4:22 pm

very nice very nice.


SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 posts
10/24/2019 5:24 pm

Well at least you could laugh about it together. That is the important part.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


bbuckwwheat 65M
6265 posts
10/24/2019 6:32 pm

The best of plans...

Paul, you have a great way of telling a story. This is just another of your great stories.

Private mailbox at my blog bbuckwwheat
Fayette, Iowa


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/24/2019 7:23 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    Oh so funny. My fave from married days was when he said invite friends over, and “he” would do the cooking. I can relax. But...his cooking was sitting by the grill while the meat cooked, drinking beer, talking sports with the guys, while “I” set the table, made and put together the appetizers and side dishes, made sure everyone is served and then, cleaning it all up while he slept it off on the couch. Yep, marital bliss.
Glad to hear your laugh.
I've done THAT, but I took care of everything. I think. lol 😂
Yep... I know what you mean.
Dja ever have your girlfriends over and he served the chips? ðŸĪ”
Yes... us guys are bad.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/24/2019 7:23 pm

    Quoting rickshot5:
    Couple conversation with other courses or with other single girl or boy both can be enjoyale
I would agree.
Thanks for popping in. 👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/24/2019 7:25 pm

    Quoting  :

I guess I didn't want to turn this into THAT type of post.
Sorry about that. I thought people might have funny stories to share. 😊🙏


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/24/2019 7:26 pm

    Quoting  :

... and so are you... lol 😂


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
10/24/2019 7:26 pm

Oh yeah, Thanksgiving.

I remember hosting a group of my friends with my newish boyfriend. I cooked my first turkey which was quite the stressful experience. As we were sitting around relaxing after the meal, he ended up giving a massage to one of my female friends (to show off the massage skills he had learned in the massage class we were taking together).


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/24/2019 7:28 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    People always , and I mean always, over romanticize being a committed couple. So much life time is wasted pursuing that, and doing that "Together" crap.
Romance is good. It's what movies are made of and it's what's powered several generations of dreamers and movie buffs.
But yeah...
Even YOU must have a story to share?
Don't give me your curmudgeon stuff. 😊


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/24/2019 7:30 pm

    Quoting japaneseass:
    um...yah...and this is why we don't do anything together anymore...and that's why we are still together, maybe??? lol...
That's funny. But I totally understand. I really do!
I can only imagine some of your attempts. We're they like mine? ðŸĪ” 😊


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/24/2019 7:31 pm

    Quoting Zitu69:
    Jackob University er naam ba chinta to mathatei aanar kono karon nai
Okie dokie... 😊 👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/24/2019 7:32 pm

I'm thinking points? ðŸĪ”
Hey.. pop in sometime! 👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/24/2019 7:37 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    Well at least you could laugh about it together. That is the important part.
Laughing about it is good.
But the fights during? Lol 😂
It wasn't ALL failure.. but you know what I mean?
You've got a story or two to share, I'm sure.
Or is it just... that people want to forget about stuff from yesterday?
I laughed.. eventually... You? ðŸĪ”


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/24/2019 7:51 pm

    Quoting bbuckwwheat:
    The best of plans...

    Paul, you have a great way of telling a story. This is just another of your great stories.
'The best of plans ...' - and then reality. Laughter always won... in the end... after a while. At least for me. You?
I'm glad some here, got it.
I'm just amusing myself.
Happy to oblige. Thanks again. 👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/24/2019 7:59 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    Oh yeah, Thanksgiving.

    I remember hosting a group of my friends with my newish boyfriend. I cooked my first turkey which was quite the stressful experience. As we were sitting around relaxing after the meal, he ended up giving a massage to one of my female friends (to show off the massage skills he had learned in the massage class we were taking together).
Oooops.... Was that funny? After a while?
Hey... And I'm sure there are a dozen other anecdotes. Right? Blog worthy? ðŸĪ”
So... then what happened... ?


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/25/2019 3:41 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Romance is good. It's what movies are made of and it's what's powered several generations of dreamers and movie buffs.
    But yeah...
    Even YOU must have a story to share?
    Don't give me your curmudgeon stuff. 😊
Don't give me your curmudgeon stuff. What you tempermentally think of as being a curmudgeon-reply, is more factually a reply of wisdom.

So you want to choose one woman and spend some of your life time with her? That's fine. Go do your thing.

Romance is good. .... Not when you use it to put on a show, or beg, for sex. The woman/women you choose, should want to have you without the Hollywood concept of romance tied to the deal to get some pussy.

When you're established with a woman, fine....then romance is good. But to use the concept to coax a woman into bending over, makes you look weak.

It's what movies are made of .... Yes, fiction.

and it's what's powered several generations of dreamers and movie buffs..... No... more like "Brainwashed", not "Powered".


Paulxx001 replies on 10/25/2019 8:33 am:
I guess love stories are not your favorite brand of movie. lol 😂

Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/25/2019 8:27 am

    Quoting  :

Glad you laughed. In the end, that's all you can do. Your fishing story sounds like it CAME out all right. lol 😂
Yep... the mishaps people have are all worthy. I'm sure you've got a ton of other adventures you had! 👍 😊


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/25/2019 8:35 am

    Quoting  :

They sure are!
I didn't even touch on the number of times we got lost... even though we had a map.
Omg... the fights! lol 😂
I'm sure most people have THOSE horror stories! Yep... couples. Who knew? ðŸĪ”


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