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This Whole Thing... Started Off... As A Dare! 😱  

Paulxx001 67M
8732 posts
3/28/2019 12:20 pm

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5/3/2019 10:51 am

This Whole Thing... Started Off... As A Dare! 😱

In a few days, it will have been a ... since I first created my profile name and logged on, to A F F . It's wild, how time flies, isn't it? This whole experience here... started out, as a dare. And a very scary , !

Photography is a passion of mine and I've been on . Gram, for many . I've met some great people there. Let's just skip, some of the details. Eventually...

... I started texting and sexting, back and forth, with this woman, who lived in Jersey. We used 'Private Messages', on Gram. On this very day, last ... she sent - very explicit, naked pictures of herself. Well... to say I was shocked and excited... would have been an understatement.

It was, a totally unexpected thrill. Then there was the panic, soon set in. She asked , for my pics. I had none. I realized, she had shown 'hers' , so obviously... I had to show her 'mine'. I hemmed and hawed, back and forth with her. I tried to tell her, I wasn't prepared. my camera was shit. I didn't know, how to take the pics. I was shy. Until, she simply texted ...

"Paul... I dare you... lol... I know you want to!"

She knew , pretty well! The next few days, were spent with butterflies, in my stomach, as I planned my photoshoot. I'd compare my stress level, to of some of the biggest, corporate meetings, I've ever, had to prepare for. Talk about being nervous! I'd never done anything, like before. Can you believe it?

In a few days, I was prepped and ready. It was... the most exciting... set of pictures, I had ever taken, in my life. I realized my 'inner exhibitionist', finally... had an outlet. My legs, were actually shaking. I won't get explicit, in describing my excitement level. I'll just say this - my 'little friend' ... wasn't camera shy. He did a rock solid job!

I'll always recall, the day, I emailed them, to Jersey lady. I was soooo nervous. I couldn't think straight. I was work, when I sent them. ... only tripped out, even more!

The details, of what happened next, are a little blurry. Evidently, she loved the pics. Then she texted with a challenge, I'll never, forget.

"Paul... IG is not the place for you. Why don't you join a sex site? You can get your kink on, over there and have a great time."

She sent me her suggestions, for adult<b> sex sites </font></b>and one of them... was - A F F. The rest is... as they say... history.

I still keep in touch, with the lady from Jersey. She sends me previews, of her her erotic stories, which I consume... willingly. I've been having, quite a bit of fun here, on A F F. Yet grateful to person, for this whole experience. lady, from Jersey... and her dare. Who says Gram is boring? Not !


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So...
How did you start with A F F and what prompted you to do so?

My very first post here, was the story, of how I connected with my IG Jersey friend and sent her my naked pics, while I was at work... You might find it a fun read...
Caught Naked At Work


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When I'd post to IG.. I might post an angled shot, like this ... .A 'think piece' , as they say... lol . .
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Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
3/28/2019 12:21 pm

Well... You already know my story. What's yours? 😊🤔


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
3/28/2019 12:23 pm

That picture was taken in Old Town ', in Montreal... in late March... I was fooling around with angles and perspective.... 😊


backpocket13 50M
9007 posts
3/28/2019 12:41 pm

Hey Brother,
.........Truthfully, I was in a car accident, and I suffered a really banging concussion, for several days I couldn’t sleep, by my second day of sleepless delirium, while surfing the dirtier contents of the Internet I stumbled upon this site, I was immediately drawn to the blogs because even in my concussed state it was the best way to meet and get to know people from all over. I blogged for two and a half years here before giving it up for five years, now I’m back and I’m just trying to adjust to what things have become,............
Sinfully Yours backpocket13
Post Script; As male bloggers we should support one another, so if you happen to have a moment swing on by my blog and say high!


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
3/28/2019 12:44 pm

i was searching for a partner to, do with and go with as even while married , i was doing many things on solo. I was new to anything internet and found the FF site ,, browsing around and clicked over to their affiliate A..F...F....and said...' whoaaaa what is this ?" lol. It had the chatrooms , which i loved then and still do. The rooms all had a different personality, men used to make female profiles to view other profiles, there was cybering in some of the rooms. pictures and activity all over...meet n greets were planned...it was a wild spot....and completely entertaining and enjoyable. Relationships were formed, people married, drama was to be found, people left and returned and people passed away. A microcosm of life at large....and that still holds true ~~


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
3/28/2019 12:55 pm

I was on a vanilla dating site when I saw a link to "sex classifieds" , I clicked.....

Curiosity got me here, the Law of Supply & Demand kept me here though blogging didn't happen until a couple of years later.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Dirkk2019 37M

3/28/2019 12:58 pm

I just joined I guess the curiosity just finally got the better of me lol I have trouble sleeping at night and finally figured why not give it a shot lol! Still to new to give a review!


pollly_anna 60F  
697 posts
3/28/2019 1:29 pm

I did not know one of your hobbies is photography....interesting.

I go way,way back with A.F.F. hold on to your hat.........15 years... ....lol

yup I've checked in every single day for 15 yrs. trust me the site was nothing then, like it is now.......

I simply joined out of boredom,


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
3/28/2019 1:47 pm

What a great story, mine isn't that exciting. I started when a friend from H.S. told me she was on the site and she knew I was stressed out because my son my youngest had joined the Army and he was being deployed to Iraq and so I joined the site and I have been here ever since. It really kept my mind of him and he did is three deployments over 11 years and now is out and married with a family of his own..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
3/28/2019 2:26 pm

    Quoting backpocket13:
    Hey Brother,
    .........Truthfully, I was in a car accident, and I suffered a really banging concussion, for several days I couldn’t sleep, by my second day of sleepless delirium, while surfing the dirtier contents of the Internet I stumbled upon this site, I was immediately drawn to the blogs because even in my concussed state it was the best way to meet and get to know people from all over. I blogged for two and a half years here before giving it up for five years, now I’m back and I’m just trying to adjust to what things have become,............
    Sinfully Yours backpocket13
    Post Script; As male bloggers we should support one another, so if you happen to have a moment swing on by my blog and say high!
Wow... That concussion thing, sounds intense. In hockey, the guy is out on the next shift... 🏒🤔
Yep... Will do. I'll pop in when I get a chance.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Pop in any time. 👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
3/28/2019 2:29 pm

    Quoting jajo696:
    i was searching for a partner to, do with and go with as even while married , i was doing many things on solo. I was new to anything internet and found the FF site ,, browsing around and clicked over to their affiliate A..F...F....and said...' whoaaaa what is this ?" lol. It had the chatrooms , which i loved then and still do. The rooms all had a different personality, men used to make female profiles to view other profiles, there was cybering in some of the rooms. pictures and activity all over...meet n greets were planned...it was a wild spot....and completely entertaining and enjoyable. Relationships were formed, people married, drama was to be found, people left and returned and people passed away. A microcosm of life at large....and that still holds true ~~
Wow! That's quite the story and sounds like a great experience....
Thanks for sharing your pov.... 😘
Although, I hear from some, that things have changed. Do you think that's true? 🤔


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
3/28/2019 2:32 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    I was on a vanilla dating site when I saw a link to "sex classifieds" , I clicked.....

    Curiosity got me here, the Law of Supply & Demand kept me here though blogging didn't happen until a couple of years later.
Curiosity brought you here? Kool!
If you didn't blog for a couple of years, where did you hang out and make contacts?
It's none of my business with this Q either, but where do you meet your contacts now? IM emails... chats..
I don't mean to pry. It's all good. Thanks for popping in 😘


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
3/28/2019 2:35 pm

    Quoting Dirkk2019:
    I just joined I guess the curiosity just finally got the better of me lol I have trouble sleeping at night and finally figured why not give it a shot lol! Still to new to give a review!
Hmmm yep. I remeber when I first started. It was kinda wild. Here's a tip for a Standard Member.... Open up a blog. It'll create a whole bunch of great opportunities for you. At least.. it works for me... 😊
Thanks for popping in. Drop by any time 👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
3/28/2019 2:38 pm

    Quoting pollly_anna:
    I did not know one of your hobbies is photography....interesting.

    I go way,way back with A.F.F. hold on to your hat.........15 years... ....lol

    yup I've checked in every single day for 15 yrs. trust me the site was nothing then, like it is now.......

    I simply joined out of boredom,
, 15 years? Wow! This site must have been completely different then. What was it like? 🤔
I have some of my Insta gram pics on my profile.. if you were curious to see them. I've loved photography for years.
Thanks for sharing your pov. 😘


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
3/28/2019 2:40 pm

    Quoting  :

I think many of us here are searching... and many of us don't really know what it is we're searching for. You're not alone. 😊
Well... are you having fun at least? I love your blog. That must be fun to write? 📝🤔


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
3/28/2019 2:43 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    What a great story, mine isn't that exciting. I started when a friend from H.S. told me she was on the site and she knew I was stressed out because my son my youngest had joined the Army and he was being deployed to Iraq and so I joined the site and I have been here ever since. It really kept my mind of him and he did is three deployments over 11 years and now is out and married with a family of his own..
Well... your story is a little more poignant than mine. I have a 'kink', issue... lol... 😁😱
You must have some great stories of how things were here in the early days? You're a pioneer! 😊
Thanks for sharing. 😘


pollly_anna 60F  
697 posts
3/28/2019 3:24 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    , 15 years? Wow! This site must have been completely different then. What was it like? 🤔
    I have some of my Insta gram pics on my profile.. if you were curious to see them. I've loved photography for years.
    Thanks for sharing your pov. 😘
I am quite the photography buff myself....


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
3/28/2019 3:29 pm

I overheard some women in an airport departure lounge talking about the site and they were giggling and whispering. I did not have a computer until 2001 and it was about four years after that, I did not always have this "name" I started as Lilymoon with a number after it. I met some real assholes and a couple of nice guys and had a couple of flings. In 2011 I deleted that and became a Cat.

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Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
3/28/2019 4:42 pm

    Quoting pollly_anna:
    I am quite the photography buff myself....
Really? Wow.... You've never posted any pics on your profile, though? What type of camera do you have?
I'd love to see some of your favorite pics. 📸


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
3/28/2019 4:50 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    I overheard some women in an airport departure lounge talking about the site and they were giggling and whispering. I did not have a computer until 2001 and it was about four years after that, I did not always have this "name" I started as Lilymoon with a number after it. I met some real assholes and a couple of nice guys and had a couple of flings. In 2011 I deleted that and became a Cat.
That's a great story. Sounds like a scene from a movie... Yep.. 😊
Well..... see.... if you would ask THAT question, I'd know the answer. Nice pic btw.. I guess it's spring, somewhere.
Sometimes... but not always.... a nice person - has an off day. I've had an off day.... where I wasn't at my best. I may even, have regretted something I'd said, or written. The moment passes... and yiu can't erase it.
But I understand.... Thanks for popping in. 😊


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
3/28/2019 5:53 pm

If you didn't blog for a couple of years, where did you hang out and make contacts?
It's none of my business with this Q either, but where do you meet your contacts now? IM emails... chats.


My dear man - I'm a real woman on a male dominated sex site. I didn't have to hang out anywhere! The contacts I made were mostly from emails I received, sometimes on the IM (I was there more often in my early years) That worked for me quite well - until I threw in the towel this month. Now, I'm no longer meeting anyone from this site. With the exception of bloggers.....if one is in the area or if I'm going to be in theirs, then I'll meet as friends. (unless I get lustfully overwhelmed)

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Paulxx001 replies on 3/28/2019 7:01 pm:
Then again.... I get it. You'd like someone, more like Brad.... sitting in the back seat. 30 years ago, I would have been him. Except my name, would have been Paul. Ahh.. time and space and place, such ephemeral, wisps of reality...

Paulxx001 replies on 3/28/2019 7:04 pm:
Then again.... I get it. You'd like someone, more like Brad.... sitting in the back seat. Some, 30 years ago, I would have been him. Except my name, would have been- Paul.
Ahh.. time and space and place, such ephemeral, wisps of reality...
Does it show, that I haven't been on a road trip, in a while. Oh... I miss the road..

pollly_anna 60F  
697 posts
3/28/2019 6:30 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Really? Wow.... You've never posted any pics on your profile, though? What type of camera do you have?
    I'd love to see some of your favorite pics. 📸
That's not true I have an 2nd album of 20 pictures of different things I've taken.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
3/28/2019 6:37 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    If you didn't blog for a couple of years, where did you hang out and make contacts?
    It's none of my business with this Q either, but where do you meet your contacts now? IM emails... chats.


    My dear man - I'm a real woman on a male dominated sex site. I didn't have to hang out anywhere! The contacts I made were mostly from emails I received, sometimes on the IM (I was there more often in my early years) That worked for me quite well - until I threw in the towel this month. Now, I'm no longer meeting anyone from this site. With the exception of bloggers.....if one is in the area or if I'm going to be in theirs, then I'll meet as friends. (unless I get lustfully overwhelmed)
Emails.... IM ... Kool...
I'm not doubting you... I'm not doubting... that you are, a 'real woman'. I'm trying to imagine... and live.. vicariously.... through your words.... what it's like to have a vagina....... And have all, those options....
I had an option... once. I could turn left and head towards New York.. or go left and head towards Syracuse...
I chose Syracuse... yep... That's where I had to be. I guess..., that's where I had to be.
So... why r u ditching us?
Why are you ditching.... this dream? Actually.. as I write these words, I know, everyone has their own path to follow. I understand... Still it's a bit sad. One person leaves... and another person is still swinging through that door, that's still... revolving.
I miss revolving doors. I love revolving doors. You'd be there.... so close as to almost touch. Captured smiles and expressions. Most of them were of laughter, in the swirl of it all. Do you have any power? Bring back... revolving doors... please. Thanks.. ❤️😘


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
3/28/2019 6:50 pm

    Quoting  :

That's crazy... That doesn't make sense... That man's opinion, I mean...
You and BJ are going to have so much fun. For sure. Can I come? I'll accidentally meet you on the 95 or the 81, whichever route you're taking... Thelma and Louise..
Doesn't it sound like a classic? 👌😂❤️


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
3/28/2019 6:55 pm

    Quoting pollly_anna:
    That's not true I have an 2nd album of 20 pictures of different things I've taken.
I apologize.. I'll go take a look at it m This is a great shot. I'd be afraid to get that close, but I imagine you used a close up lense, or a zoom?
Scary stuff lol.... I'd be freaking out.. lol 😱


pollly_anna 60F  
697 posts
3/28/2019 8:52 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I apologize.. I'll go take a look at it m This is a great shot. I'd be afraid to get that close, but I imagine you used a close up lense, or a zoom?
    Scary stuff lol.... I'd be freaking out.. lol 😱
The snow pile in my front yard this winter.


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