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How to write a quality message to others-Communication tips
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How to write a quality message to others-Communication tips Some tips from the rare with a psychology degree in human behavioral studies as well as former professional dating coach. This is not say we are leading experts on the subject but far more versed than most and used TEACH men and women how make better,more successful connections with other people on a romantic and sexual level. Oh, I, could tell you why The oceans near the shore I could think of things I'd never Thunk before, And then I'd sit down and think some more. I would not be just a muffin', My head all full of stuffin', My heart all full of pain; And perhaps I'd deserve you and be Even worthy even you If I had a brain. SCARECROW -WIZARD OF OZ We have of the most detailed profiles on this site, with explicit road map on the best approach yet we still get word or sentence greetings asking if we are interested? We look at profile from person sending message and there is NO PIC, a DICK pic, and no description available. HMMM HOW CAN ANYONE BE INTERESTED with no information make a decision? There are plenty of couples that are looking for stunt cock and have limited profile descriptions themselves, so possibly from inference you may get with these couples with such a mediocre or sub par greeting. However when you see a couple that has spent time and effort giving a great deal of detail it should automatically be considered that maybe....they are looking for more. We are of the rare single friendly couples on any site. Like the opening of the wizard of oz excerpt, we WISH single men had a brain. Be worthy, sit and think before sending a lackluster introduction. Especially when you have a couple that spent time let you know exactly how respond. We get THOUSANDS of messages a year so keep that in mind! OH wait we should be absolutely ECSTATIC that you sent a HI ! message --HOLY SHIT 2 letters and an EXCLAMATION POINT -- OH now we found the ONE .. let me get my wife ready SPREAD her legs WIDE open and get ready for the most intuitive, most intense , ground breaking sex she has ever received ---anyone writing 2 letters and an exclamation MUST be the absolute best choice there is in the universe. Come on? Think, use your brain- HOW does your message stand among the 200 others that we receive monthly and garner our attention with such a lack of effort in reading and NO apparent attention detail. or wait....Hung, 26 year old with stamina ----get plenty of those ---OF course we are so interested no picture , no value and absolutely no reference the things we offered in profile that may be important us. When was the last time you took your cock at a Night Club with a BAG on your head , PULLED DOWN YOUR PANTS and spoke No words other than ARE YOU INTERESTED? and had 20 to women swooning over the beauty of your cock? NEVER? So , we ask , Why do it here? Do you think thats a good way build rapport? We have NEVER seen this work before yet on virtual interaction men consistently do it here as if the cock is a decision factor over the other 1 MILLION COCK pics that exist on this site. Stop thinking with the totality of your DICK and you may find better success. Step step: 1) Read profile 2) respond with something of interest that specifically points to a SPECIFIC thing you like about our profile or HOW YOU fit the preferences WE ARE LOOKING FOR. 3) Show some effort -give examples or direct reasons why you feel you may be a good match 4) STOP leading with your own agenda --statements like I want to meet because I want to fuck her, means nothing to us ---you are in a sea of lackluster , mediocre responses with everyone else 5) OPEN pictures or be ready provide --HOW can we offer invite when UNABLE gauge attraction -or have a COCK pic-we dont invite cocks meet --we invite MEN with personality and intelligence-Common sense 6) Use common sense --she is not a piece of meat and sex is not guaranteed --nothing in life is-- natural conversation and interest is how HUMAN BEHAVIOR works -- not a cock pic ! We list preferences and a direct step step on how approach us and yet still get ridiculous introductions.. We know we are on a sex site BUT is it so unimaginable that we expect some intelligence, intuition and effort? How about natural communication and conversation SKILL above and beyond sex? If you cant write a complete thought or give effort in introducing yourself how do you think we feel YOU PERFORM IN BED? The the disregard and lack of interest other than getting yourself off? This is your chance make a first impression --why is it that our society has lost all its ability make a quality introduction and offer anything of value more than a few words and a virtual bullshit greeting. We are very approachable, honest, sincere people that want meet --but also have a certain expectation at least read profile and extend a moderate level of effort with us- |
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A clever, humorous or intellectually impressive opening line can kill. Two examples, both over 18 months old, that began friendships that continue to this day. Example 1: A woman's profile picture featured a bright red necktie, tied and having between her exposed breasts. My comment on the photo: "Is that knot a Windsor or a Four-in-Hand?" Turns out she worked in men's retail and I showed that I possessed both knowledge and a sense of style. (And yes, I got to meet those two exposed breasts in person.) Example 2: Another woman responded well to both the depth of my profile and the photos that showed off my well-developed cycling thighs. She's a cyclist, too, as well as an architect. Knowing the latter piece of information, I figured out that her Senior Sizzle handle is a pun involving the name of a famous architect. In almost ten years on Senior Sizzle, no one else had figured that out. Since then we've done a lot of riding together--and yes, on bikes as well. Of course, there are far more woman on Senior Sizzle who would be turned OFF by two such comments, which is why knowing the audience is important. Then again, with so many undesirable Senior Sizzle participants, it's usually helpful to separate the wheat from the chaff as early in the process as possible!
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