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REAL STATISTICS on dating sites -- LEARN THE TRUE statistical landscape of ALL dating sites  

Jchris2018 44M/38F  
67 posts
3/28/2018 6:28 pm
REAL STATISTICS on dating sites -- LEARN THE TRUE statistical landscape of ALL dating sites


Articles written by former professional dating coach with a psychology degree in human behavioral studies.

We tend be more analytical than most and willing chronicle our experience in hopes that other people have the same interest in making the community better for all of us.

The truly surprising part is that 30% 70% of members on ALL dating sites , no matter what type-vanilla or otherwise , have ABSOLUTELY NO intention of meeting at all. SEE ARTICLE -www. elitedaily./dating/use-tinder-for-same-reason-not-dating/18394

OR SEARCH TITLE the Title below -----
People Are not Using Tinder Date Or Hook Up, Science Says.

EXAMPLE: Match dot advertises that they created the MOST MARRIAGES of any site on the web and this is TRUE
What they DON'T tell you is:

Average woman spends 2.2 Years find the one

7400 bantered emails in 2.2 years

Average of 60 90 failed or no show dates find the “ONE” in 2.2 years

We get some 500 messages a month, over 35,000 in last 7 years asking meet or chat.

OUR HYPOTHESIS many are using as an ego boost or illusory fantasy of popularity -like having 2000 friends on Face book. There are many articles in psychology today explaining the same.

Truth is DATING sites are MULTI billion dollar entities all often owned by one carrying company---if they actually reported REAL numbers ---who would buy membership...

ALSO if they were so successful at matching people ---you would have significant attrition in membership and thus loss of profits--

SPOILER ALERT ---dating sites are NOT entirely designed to be good at matching people--

No study can take into consideration how many married men posing as singles with no real availability or those single men posing as couples to mine free pics , or just using the ONLINE chat to get off masturbating for self gratification using the chat as additional stimuli with no intent to truly meet.

What all dating sites DO NOT tell you is HOW many messages and conversations it takes to actually meet REAL PEOPLE

Single men on average based on numerous professional studies would need to send 50 to ONE HUNDRED messages to get ONE viable reply.

Due to scheduling, jobs, life etc.. you will meet 1 out of every TEN viable replies you make.

That means doing the math; men will need send 500 to 00 messages just meet one COUPLE.

Don’t take our word for it, research it yourself, may articles on dating statistics no matter what type of site

We have offered over 950 invites meet us over the last 7 , all double confirmed via cell phone and message on this site .

0 PERCENT of men promised show up with statements like , I am a man of my word and ;I always show up;- we have heard and received this verbally or via TEXT HUNDREDS of times over 7 years .....

ONLY 250 men total have physically shown up to meet -representing a 29% success level on actually meeting---

She has chosen only men move a sexual level within the same 7 year time frame out of the 250 men met--A true success level of 4%.

Why such low rate of success-- Men show up older than pics, 50 pounds heavier , too drunk, too aggressive , rude , act as if entitled to sex, too quiet , socially awkward, boring, no conversations skills, and a whole host of other maladies----

It’s so difficult to find intelligent, well-adjusted men that understand how to garner a woman’s attention and join a couple

So far in JUST a year time-frame we have had 5 grandmothers pass away on a Saturday approximately 7pm for most which was about 3 hours from our meeting time--pension for death on Saturdays we guess

(WE DO APOLOGIZE FOR THOSE THAT DID SINCERELY HAVE A GRANDMOTHER DEATH) but ...

you must imagine that statistically the probability is low for all of them match dates and time frame of our preset meet dates

9 car accidents ONE which sent picture of accident illustrating a rain storm (HAD NOT rained in 3 weeks lol--smart guy),

Numerous I fell asleep, plenty of I was too drunk, 3 broken limbs, 8 hospitalizations, over 20- I have my that weekend AFTER knowing the date upfront and committing.

We are still awaiting our first ALIEN ABDUCTION and DEMONIC POSSESSION excuses-- NOW that would be original and unique ---

CarriedBack 56M  
144 posts
8/31/2020 9:34 am

I thoroughly agree with Mdonson57! Helpful advice, offered with wit and sincerity.


Mdonson57 63M
504 posts
8/24/2020 9:56 am

Should be required reading for anyone creating a profile here. Thanks for posting.

MDonson
Kiik Myonguy


Smoothlysuave 43M

4/5/2018 12:01 am

I think on this site , in particular, most are enamored with the idea of having sex, feeling sexy or are simply bored and lonely. But, they have zero intentions of actually meeting.


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