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DaddyDom Littles article I liked. This is an article on Littles/ Daddy relationship. but I changed submissive to a woman because I am not really inclined to be very submissive, and I cut out the part I do not agree with. because I am representing me, what I want, not what someone writing about it thinks... In the world of BDSM, a male lover taking on a quasi-paternal role of nurturing caregiver and disciplinarian becomes the "daddy." He indulges, edifies, and chastises his childlike female partner, who is often both emotionally and financially dependent upon him. Yes, this phenomenon began in BDSM. Are you surprised? The partner to a "daddy" is a "little girl," though this half of the relationship hasn't received as much attention. This kind of woman enjoys being treated like a by her lover, most commonly calling her partner "daddy" both in and out of the bedroom. She's fully integrated with her inner , not play-acting the character of a young girl in her relationship. Actually, this is no role-play scenario for her at all. For this kind of woman, being a feels entirely natural, authentic and effortless whereas playing the role of a "grown-up" feels conversely like a forced and falsified act. Here's what's important: trust, devotion, attention, tenderness and unconditional love and support lie at the cornerstone of this deeply nurturing dynamic. This kind of BDSM dynamic involves the woman being treated as both princess and juvenile, being pampered and spoiled for her good behaviors and scolded and punished for her not so good ones. The daddy issues rules and guidelines for his little girl to follow ( these will be highly negotiated) He administers<b> punishments </font></b>for rules not abided by, including writing outlines, time in the naughty corner, groundings, lectures, and other corrections. Rewards are given to the woman in this dynamic. Any of this making you uncomfortable? You don't have to take it as far as someone in a very rigid BDSM relationship might but if it's something you'd like to play around with, you should talk to your partner about it more. The two of you can make it so much MORE than a nickname. But it also can remain simply that: only a nickname. The payoff for the Little woman in this alternative relationship dynamic is that she gets spoiled, babied and adored 24/7. She receives all the affection, adoration, support and encouragement a girl of any age could ever want and coupled with an endless source of quasi-paternal love and care. Meanwhile, the Daddy dominant benefits from having a totally awesome endearing woman- making him smile, and brightening his day, and maybe even bringing out his own inner youthfulness! However, it should still be clear: This dynamic is NOT a roleplay. While roleplay is, at times, included within the sexual activities tthese couples elect to experience, the daddy/little girl dynamic itself is by no means a roleplay or act. For both the male-dominant daddy and the little, the ways in which they express themselves within this rare dynamic come completely naturally. There are also a few personality traits of the woman, in this dynamic. Littles can be innocent, sweet and highly sensitive with pure intentions. They can have the mind and heart of a , irrespective of their external appearance, level of intellect or actual age. No matter how domineering, authoritative, or demanding these women may appear to those who observe them in a professional these closet will always return home seeking the quiet and comforting refuge of their Daddy's arms. Supporting the daddy/little girl dynamic are activities such as the daddy reading his woman fairy tales and 's bedtime stories. He buys her stuffed toys, coloring books, and lollipops, and taking her to see the latest Disney movie at the cinemas. My daddy will bathe me, and feed me, and dress me, and nurture everything to do with my like ness.. He will also spend time educating his little on various topics in order to broaden her general knowledge. People in this relationship share an intense emotional and spiritual bond, identifying with one another on a deeply psychological level. This particular relationship elicits powerful feelings and is the most mutually rewarding relationship dynamic |
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