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Hmmmmm, I wonder, I wonder!  

bitchkitty2017 71F
2245 posts
8/6/2019 11:33 am
Hmmmmm, I wonder, I wonder!
Ok i am very curious /Inquisitive , one or both ..Maybe guys can answer this , couples as well from a guys perspective would be ideal gals chime in add the two cent coin as it were..
Why when someone makes their profile to attract a potential mate, partner playmate etc ...do people show pics or videos of them in various sex acts or just plain sucking and fucking ? I am not asking to be a smart ass or judge anyone as its their right to put whatever they want on their profile...But does it attract who you want or does it not attract anyone? Now this is from a woman's point of view but again not being a judge of anyone or anything...when i view profiles or have someone contact me message or whatever , i am not a big fan of videos or pics with the guy screwing another woman ..now this is not a jealousy thing if you can understand what that means....when i view a mans profile i want to see him not what hes capable of or how he does what comes natural...its a preference nothing else.....
I admire the human male body and would much rather see him and really much rather also judge for myself what hes capable of in person..we all know sex is a wonderful thing and between two people its amazing to feel , and touch that body..Curious minds would like to know...I am not looking for any experts or critiques ...just maybe explain as best you can..thanks
bitchkitty2017 71F

8/6/2019 11:34 am

 Oh my you are so cute when you play dumb! lol


Gary545454 65M
635 posts
8/6/2019 12:30 pm

 my experience is that most ladies prefer a face picture


DaveM1395 48M

8/6/2019 12:31 pm

 Have to say I am guilty of doing the same thing. Probably because we all hope we are all looking for the same thing.


justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
8/6/2019 12:33 pm

 My two cents:

This site and (by extension) its community is for some (mostly of male persuasion?) a liberating opportunity to engage in a (heretofore repressed) exhibitionism. This would imply that the end-game is not a sexual connection, but a masturbatory climax associated with *naughty* behavior.

Indeed, I invite women members to test my hypothesis and perform some simple analytics with their personal experiences in this community and determine if there is linkage between exhibitionism (profile dick pix are a good starting point) and flakiness on follow-through (ie, ghosting).


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/6/2019 1:07 pm
    Quoting Gary545454:
    my experience is that most ladies prefer a face picture
You are absolutely right and its a refreshing thing to come across those profiles that show a face pic...now i do understand some do not want to do that and its ok but if a guy isnt going to show a face pic for one reason or another i think he should not barrage women with a large number of dick pics or jerk off vids ...even something visually appealing would be nice there are lots of things and tasteful one can post ...


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/6/2019 1:09 pm
    Quoting DaveM1395:
    Have to say I am guilty of doing the same thing. Probably because we all hope we are all looking for the same thing.
No thats fine dont feel guilty and its a normal natural thing to do , i am not gonna judge for that i just wanted to know why ...its just as a curious thing i always wondered about ..thanx


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/6/2019 1:11 pm
    Quoting justaguyinalaska:
    My two cents:

    This site and (by extension) its community is for some (mostly of male persuasion?) a liberating opportunity to engage in a (heretofore repressed) exhibitionism. This would imply that the end-game is not a sexual connection, but a masturbatory climax associated with *naughty* behavior.

    Indeed, I invite women members to test my hypothesis and perform some simple analytics with their personal experiences in this community and determine if there is linkage between exhibitionism (profile dick pix are a good starting point) and flakiness on follow-through (ie, ghosting).
well believe it or not i think that is one thing i am sure of ..i been on here for awhile and found that out weeks into my stay...i have no doubt that those things are certainly interconnected..thanx


Wffunwf 44M

8/6/2019 2:21 pm

 Sexy pics!


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/6/2019 3:25 pm
    Quoting  :
I do agree whole heartedly and i wish more women would be cautious when asking for the famous bbc and she does not realize the effects of the brutality and careless action of some of the men who oblidge..I seen too many women visit the ER in distress over that and its not pretty....some think its fun and funny ...it can be fun but also can be debilitating as well ..i worked as a consultant for women who were exploited or abused and it was not fun seeing the effects and after effects of brutality.....thanx


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/6/2019 3:26 pm

 Thanks sweetheart ..


Vixn_Vella 49F  
14911 posts
8/6/2019 6:25 pm

 Like you, I’m not a fan of the profile pics of him banging someone else. I personally (if I was looking for a play partner) would prefer to imagine what *I * would look like with him.

Amazingly hilarious picture!!!
I have no effing clue where I'm going and what I'm saying Vixn_Vella

Its not me....It's you.

And no...we cannot be friends


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/7/2019 5:35 am
    Quoting Vixn_Vella:
    Like you, I’m not a fan of the profile pics of him banging someone else. I personally (if I was looking for a play partner) would prefer to imagine what *I * would look like with him.

    Amazingly hilarious picture!!!
thanks for that comment and if i look hard enough i would find alot of women feel the same way..I think there are very few younger women who dont think about it one way or another but as we age we tend to feel less and less impressed with that type of behavior ...I for one and i can speak for a mass of women from 40 yrs and over we are not so much taken with the actions per se as we are imagining how that guy would perform in a different setting with a woman who likes to see for herself in that senario....after all women are alike when it comes to sexual activity but as an individual requires different things.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
8/7/2019 6:52 am
    Quoting justaguyinalaska:
    My two cents:

    This site and (by extension) its community is for some (mostly of male persuasion?) a liberating opportunity to engage in a (heretofore repressed) exhibitionism. This would imply that the end-game is not a sexual connection, but a masturbatory climax associated with *naughty* behavior.

    Indeed, I invite women members to test my hypothesis and perform some simple analytics with their personal experiences in this community and determine if there is linkage between exhibitionism (profile dick pix are a good starting point) and flakiness on follow-through (ie, ghosting).
Ya know... You might have a great point there! 👍 🤔
Yep... good analysis!


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