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Pain "We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey." -Kenji Miyazawa pain is a uniquely human indulgence. The link between and pain is not confined the world of BDSM. study, in which researchers fMRI visualise the brains of women as they stimulated themselves climax, found that more than areas of the brain were active, including those involved in pain. Another found that cancer survivors, had nerves in their spinal cord cut relieve chronic abdominal pain, lost the ability have orgasms. If their pain returned, so did the orgasms. The relationship between pain and pleasure in human sexuality is as profound as it is complex. It is a polarity that lives in each of us and deserves our curiosity. Sadly, it is not unusual for us close down situations that we fear will bring pain and discomfort. Replacing our tendency of avoidance with a capacity for wonder when it comes our pain associations with is eye opening and has the potential release an untapped capacity for pleasure. Each time I have I am struck the ecstatic release of deep pleasure, which ignites an equal release of intense pain. It is an internal space where sensation is leader and I have long wondered what begets what, if it is the intensity of the pain that arouses the pleasure or the other way around. So difficult it is tease , that I have come believe that the pain/pleasure of our deepest sexual release is in the .Given our biology, it is not terribly surprising that the practice of combining painful techniques with sexuality is ancient. Roman poets, ancient tribal drawings and even the Kama Sutra all refer safe practices of what has come be known as BDSM. This acronym, which refers Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism, reflects the ancient sexual rituals of sexual<b> dominance and submission </font></b>that have qualified sex throughout history. Looking at how our sexual experience is mirrored in the emotions and soul of our relationship offers an illuminating perspective. is hypothesis: loving someone emotionally creates the pain/pleasure experience that lives in the body while making love them. The moments of deep connection and intimacy, vulnerability and nakedness are matched their opposite experience: feeling deeply hurt your lover, what was said, or, just as often, what went unsaid. The act of loving in whatever form requires a willingness experience both the pain and pleasure. This is the piece of sustaining loving relationships that is easy miss, or at least misunderstand, and tragically the place where we walk away from the heart of what we want most. |
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