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Head Space  

MistressFreyja25 50F
3 posts
9/24/2018 10:59 am
Head Space

So, when you are in an actual relationship, how much time to take for yourself? How much time constitutes "TOO MUCH TIME" for ones self? If you think about it, you start a relationship completely absorbed with the other person. You want to know them, to touch, taste, feel and smell them. For as long as possible until it is time to go... and then you want, need, crave, yearn for them. But what happens when you do see them all the time, what happens, when your brain realizes, this is the same person, over and over and over. Do the feelings stop? Where do they go? What happens that changes this amazing dynamic? What can you do to stop it?

The idea I think would be to make your own life so special and amazing that seeing another person is icing on the cake. Your own life is so decorated and full of charm and happiness and activities that meeting another person to share certain parts of it is fun and entertaining. You have limited time on this rolling rotating ball of a planet. You know this. And yet each day we spend wondering if we will be happy or wondering if this person will make us happy, is wasted. All we have is now, all we have is here today, all we have is ourselves to create our own happiness from within.... you don't wait for someone else to hand it to you. It is your life, you are the creator of it. Every day you wake up with a smile and a positive attitude and outlook, you win. And you will never be alone..... because your heart is content.... and your heart is always happy. You are living life as you designed it, not waiting for someone else.

JustWonderin96 55M  
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6/12/2019 4:15 am

 Never done this before: "watched a blog." Much less commented on one.

These are some of the most sincere, poignant, eloquent thoughts - this post and th others that accompany it - that I've encountered on Senior Sizzle, and they've made my day a better one.

I wrote my response not to seduce or lure its author; instead, it's just plain respect and admiration in a world that too often seems lacking in both qualities.


MistressFreyja25 replies on 10/18/2019 7:45 am:
I really appreciate your response. It's weird that the anonymity of this site allows such breathing room to write actual feelings and thoughts with absolute confidence. I always have felt this way but I found this venue to write so much more intriguing and freeing. Thank you again, I really appreciate your kind words and I'm glad I made your day a better one. Truly. xo

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