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Very well said.
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7/23/2018 5:01 pm |
I do have someone special in my life, my wife. Definitely was not looking for her at all. We were friends for a while. She got married we stayed friends and when that marriage fell apart we kind of stumbled into each other. That was over a decade ago. As for the rest I understand the broad net hoping to stick. I've done that in the past. For now its this is me. You can like me or not lol I wish you all the luck in your search for what you want and need, and then finding it as well 
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Hi GG: Normally, I'd pull out some forgotten Hunter lyric. Sometimes though, the Parrotheads get to the heart of the matter. "Oh yesterday's over my shoulder So I can't look back for too long there's just too much to see waiting in front of me And I know that I just can't go wrong" Got to admit, I still like that l'il ditty. You've got a handle on it. Have a great day. Ciao, a presto, Bella. G
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If I'm being perfectly honest (in the words of Bono); "I still haven't found what I'm looking for."
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Many of us have a Crazy Bob in our lives. He/she is there because we accept their craziness and still want the person in our lives. Sometimes they step over the bounds, and you step away from them tho. The craziest people can be the nicest people sometimes. When I went thru my 1st divorce, I lost many of the friends we had as a couple because I moved away, and didnt maintain(couldnt due to $$ issues) and never regained them later. Then, I moved further away for employment reasons, and lost more, and then, when I returned to my home city, I found almost all wer gone from my life. So, I burried myself in a job that was 16hrs/7days a weec/for 8 months of the year, and lost what few I had left. I made more, but after 7 yrs in that job, it was very hard to maintain those friendships, and again, I found myself almost devoid of friends. I too a job 160 miles away from my home city, commuting twice a weec for 6 months, and lost a few more, and finally after 2 yrs of that, transferred to an opening in my hime city. But this was a 10 yr timespan, and it proved almost impossible to rebuild any of the old friendships. So I muttered along, and after 9 more years, I got disgusted and moved far far away. Met lots women, wasnt interested in forming male contacts much at all. And all my female friends either turned into lovers or past loves, but along the way, I got married again for the 3rd time (I left out my 2nd marriage cuz that was an odd time of mainly just the two of us), and I again made friends from her friendship circle. When we split, again, I lost all those friends, but learned a few of the women from my past still cared even if we were no longer lovers, and they helped me survive. Now, as I am retired, and partially disabled, I find I have one true friend for 44 years, and a few distant friends, and many online friends, but am basically alone. To late to repair all that, but I dont no what I would have done differently either.
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I had a come to jesus moment like that recently... really more like "the way my life is crazy and changing so fast, what I want right now isn't what's realistic or probably what I'm going to want later." My former lover I'd known for a few years before we even met. (I'm a much better long distance relationship maintainer it seems) I've been friends (in real life lol) with my current one for again, a few years before advancing to the sexually intimate stage. It seems I have to feel an investment in me as well as like people a LOT before I want to have sex with them, and for the most part, I don't like the people I meet when we meet to just vet each other for boinking.
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True enough we all know a person like that. I had/have a friend like that too. Only calls when he wants something. At this point, unfortunately, I don't really want to deal with it. Good of you to look inward as well as outward. Makes the view of the road ahead a bit clearer.
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