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Top Sex Sites Someone said the other day that I just never have bad days. It was pretty fortuitous timing because I'd been having the worst day I've had in a while... I try not to let the bad get to me because I always know things will get better. I woke up in the best mood after some good news. I've definitely been in a slump lately, but today has just been perfect. Thank you for today. Always gotta take that time to brush off the bs and appreciate the good shit. I think that's why it seems I never have bad days.  I was asked to breakdown a list of the<b> sex sites </font></b>I've tried in terms of success. I'm going to define success as having fucked someone off of that site. And your girl has been on just about all of the sites, so let's consumer reports this bitch and list it out. I will say, this is as I've experienced things living in the Denver metro area, some sites have more active user bases depending on the region. And it's also how friendly these sites were to a married woman in an open relationship, so it will be skewed there. But here goes - Worst to best<b> sex sites </font></b>I've tried out. 8. Kasidie Kasidie is a site for swingers. I was turned onto it from another friend into the lifestyle. He said it could help me with trying to find the right couple. Creating a profile was easy enough, but nothing after that was easy. The interface sucks, you have to pay for literally everything... even as a girl you have to pay. Say what you will about sites that make things easy for the girls, but quite frankly I've never put any money into any online site, and I don't stick around for the ones that make it hard for me to play. And you'll get more users if there's more girls in a member base. Usually when I sign up for a site, I'm inundated with messages in the first few hours. On Kasidie, I only got 3 messages in the first 3 days. And all of the messages were for meet ups/sex parties with people I'd never spoken to. But, this is Kasidie's mo. Meet ups. Which is great for people into the group swinging lifestyle, but I've got social anxiety and could never. I suppose if you are into that, this is your kind of site. But of the 6+ months I've been on there, I've only talked to 3 actual human beings. And I've not met up with anyone. And they still want me to pay money for it. No thank you. 7. Passion.com Passion is a site for singles. I didn't realize going in that singles meant unattached. The instant I realized this, and after they tried to get me to pay $30/month, I stopped using it. I was only on there for about 2 days and haven't gone back since. And I was also on this a long ass time ago before I was on Senior Sizzle completely, didn't realize it was part of the Senior Sizzle network. Hehe! 6. FetLife This is another site where the model is mostly about meet ups. I rank it higher than Kasidie since they aren't making you pay for every damn thing, and because the meet ups are more innocent (there was one at a buffalo wild wings I almost went to, until I saw it was me and 10 guys and I wasn't sure I could handle that pressure), but this is a very niche site. Only kinky mother fuckers will sign up for it (hi), so the user base is fairly limited. There was at least a lot more interaction on there, and I bet I would have had success had I put more effort into it, but I am lazy as fuck and effort is tedious. You could do a lot for free though, and I'm not sure if that's your experience as a female or if everyone enjoys free perks, but if you're looking for a dom/domme or some other kinky relationship, FetLife could be for you. 5. Marital Affair This site is a sausage fest. From what I can remember, it was completely free unless you wanted some extra bull shit that you don't need. They did this to try to pad their user base. I'm sure once they felt they had enough users, everything would cost money. But when I was on there, I remember most of it being free. And there was a lot more interaction on there, again I think it was because I was the only girl, but I never lacked for a talking companion. Talking was as far as things went though, and I never met up with anyone. 4. Tinder Alright, so technically this is a dating site first and a hookup site second, but you can hookup on here. This app is probably the most user friendly thing on the planet, and you can absolutely get away with never paying in a dime. I decided to jump on there after a married, cheating friend of mine told me he usually pulls maybe 4 girls a year from Tinder. I should have more success being a hot and willing girl, right? Well... the swiping mechanic is kind of ridiculous. You're approving people on a picture alone most of the time. But, it was completely fun to do. Just a swipe and I never saw that lame-o again. I didn't have to talk to people I didn't find attractive! Yes! But, then you realize the opposite is true. People can pass you right over if you don't have a good pic up. My fragile ego couldn't even. I was obsessed with finding the right pic to get noticed, it was stressful... I did eventually meet up with one guy from Tinder, so there's that. But, he did not realize I was married, even though I said in my profile that I was open. So, he clearly didn't bother to read it! Hahaha. And here lies the problem with Tinder, some people are genuinely looking for someone to share a romantic connection with. It's not just about sex. And it wasn't just about sex for the guy I met for coffee. Huge miscommunication there, and we obviously went no further than coffee. Or in my case hot chocolate. 3. FuckBook Alright, FuckBook was a ton of fun for the time I was on there. Completely free and it literally is Facebook with naked people. Great interface, active member base, a ton of female members (don't know how many were real or fake) and perfect for the exhibitionist in all of us. The major drawback here is that it seemed to mostly be about being an exhibitionist. Pic swapping was huge, but when it came time to meet, no one was serious. I did end up meeting one guy from there, and I did suck his dick in the parking lot of a DQ, but he seemed to be like everyone else on that site. Not very serious. We fizzled out shortly after our meet. 2. Ashley Madison I warned you that this would be skewed to how the sites were for me, a female in an open relationship. So, AM is completely FREE for a female seeking males. And the ratio of males to females is about 10:1. In my experience, it was more like 20:1with how many fake female profiles the site had. I did very well on that site, I was basically the queen for a while. Hell, there have been plenty of people I talked to on Senior Sizzle that recognized me from AM. AM's big problem is that men pay for everything, and it is EXPENSIVE. You have to pay for a monthly membership, or you can get credit packs to message women. The packs come in different amounts, but on average it would cost you between $2 and $4 to send an initial message. And there was no guarantee you'd get a reply, but the replies would also cost men money. Because of this, only men with money to burn were on AM, and there seemed to be a very high quality of men on there. The most handsome men I've ever met in my life were from AM. The sugar daddy from another blog post, I met him on AM. I had a ton of fun on there. Ladies, if you're okay with men cheating on their partners and are looking for some damn good quality, join up!! But, it isn't number 1 for me simply because it costs so much money, which means most men shy away. I've gone through about all the men worth going through on that site, so I haven't even logged on in weeks. 1. A*F*F Network Let me tell you why this is number 1!! A*F*F has something like 10 different websites, and you can interact with users from any of them. That means the user base on this site is MASSIVE! I've probably talked to thousands of people on here from all walks of life. People like to bitch about the cost, but you can absolutely get away with never paying in a dime (if you're female) or only paying for a membership once (if you're male) if you know how to use the site. Most people are just into instant gratification and don't bother with the nuances of a site like this, but if you took the time to realize how to use the site, you'd love this place. The IM system, while very flawed, is pretty unique. Most other sites don't have chat rooms, blogs, a stories section, contests and live member cams. This site is so rich with content that I'm using it for porn anymore since this is mostly user created content and I haven't seen it before. The only real drawback to me is it doesn't have the quality of users AM has. I can't tell you how many gray outlines try to holla at me daily... But again, you've got that quantity. Hell, this easily has the biggest female user base too. You just have to be patient. You'll find quite a few diamonds in the rough if you give this place a fair shot. And sometimes you have to look past the pics and into the person themselves. But, I've had the best sex partners ever from this site. And there you have it. There's tons of<b> sex sites </font></b>out there though, I have even joined quite a few that I can't remember the names of so I figure they weren't even good enough to list. You just have to find what works for you. Hope this was informative! Have fun lovers! Miss D |
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This is the only site I use. I've tried a few others in the past but I like here. I've always thought there were plenty of women here. I wish I had a teleporter.    
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Thanks answered a few of my curiosities
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Great summary!!! Thanks (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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Yes, this is the best sex site..agreed!!....I love it!!
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u go sexy thanks for the good info
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Awesome review! Thanks. Answered some questions and proved some perceptions true regarding guy/gal advantages on different sites. Appreciate you sharing your experiences from the other sites!
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Thanks for the post. For men it is usually a lot more difficult than for a woman. Firstly, all of the sites are set up to extract as much $$$ from men as possible. Secondly, I am sure that there are a lot more fake women than fake men. Anywho, I found that a f f was/is the only site where I actually got contact to real human women, albeit mostly overseas ... The best thing is, I have never had to pay a single dime. It's just a matter of getting to know how to use the site. Just have a look at the Points Program and how to earn points ... It pays to be (very) active! And sometimes there are even very generous members who willingly share their wealth (in points) by giving them away on request or in a random draw. Thanks Miss  
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Your observation that men only have to pay once. What's the trick to that? When I was a paying user, the deal was buy a year, get an additional half year if you write three first-contact messages per month, write one blog message per month, and one other easy condition I've forgotten. But it still expired after 18 months. The only site where I've actually had a hook-up was the classified ads site. Normally it's a dead end for men, but I was on there during a giant snow storm (by Seattle standards), and a young woman advertised that she was snowed in, and hardly anyone dared brave driving in the snow. Once everyone was scared off the roads, they were safe for me, because I know how to drive in snow (but not how to dodge other people who don't know how). So I drove to her, she met me at the door wearing a towel, and to get past initial shyness we showered together, then went two rounds. If I hadn't been parked in a spot where I'd get towed if I stuck around until morning, I probably would have been welcome to spend the night and continue in the morning, but I didn't want to deal with getting towed. That was well before I met my wife (in person, not on-line), by the way. I'm only on now for blogs and possibly to find someone for both of us as a couple.
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