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Continuum of Female Sexuality  

TopTwentyPercent 60M
124 posts
9/20/2017 8:49 am
Continuum of Female Sexuality

Perhaps this is going to be a little tongue and cheek, but it has always been my goal to show that there is a difference in women with regard to their sexuality.

I need a 10!

We are not talking about the perfect body. That does not exist. I am looking for the most sexual woman out there that has chemistry with me.

So on this continuum, the 1 is a woman that largely does not do sex. I remember a scene from Big Bang Theory were Leonard had sex with Leslie Winkle. She told him after they had sex for the first time that she was "good through New Year's".

"Do you have a date on New Years?" asked Leonard?

She would be a one in my book. You know...sex about once a quarter.

My ex-wife would have been a three. She truly sought out sex from me about once every two to three weeks. With my pushing, we would have sex several times a week, but this is about how she and the women I am with approach sex.

In a string of great relationships I met a couple of very high scoring ladies. My "Postmaster" was someone that I met on a vanilla website. Several dates in, I found out that she had quite the appetite and enthusiasm for sex. She would frequently invite me in the bedroom to "play" during the afternoon. Booty calls were common....sometimes she would invite me over, sometimes she would ask to come to my house. Waking her up for sex at 3am was a holiday for her.

The "Postmaster" did what she could with lingerie but for the most part preferred to be naked. When I proposed going to a swing club to her, she said that she could never do that.

She was a 9. Very high praise indeed!

The next lady was a gorgeous redhead! A real dream that loved to cook and model sensual clothes. Sexually, she had her limitations and about three months into the relationship, her modest interest in sex began to show. She just couldn't keep up with me.

I would rate her a 5.

Finally, I met "Blondie" (who stayed with me last night). To this day, "Blondie" and I have sex pretty much every night we are together...like last Thursday and Friday and last night, twice a day. "Blondie" grew her lingerie collection to please me and three years later, she always presents herself in the most sensual ways. Off the top of my head, she has never specifically requested a "booty call", but anytime we get together, there will be sex involved.

We also were very involved in the swinging community together.

She is a 10.

I have other women in my life that have not been a major part, but in a shallow way rank in the 5 to 8 category. As I spend more time with and learn about them, their scores may change...one may be a 10, but I just don't spend enough time with her to see how consistent we would be sexually.

In my estimation, a woman at eight or above on this scale would spend a lot of time thinking about sex. Someone in the four to seven range would or could be affected by sexual innuendos or a sexy movie...or alcohol!

I also realize that women go through phases. Many go through long periods with little or no sex, but by the time they meet me, they are in a period of constant sexual need. Someone like "Blondie" may admit at never having gone through a time of little or no interest in sex.

Some may be offended that I put together a box like this and actually place beautiful people into it. Well, I would like to hear your thoughts and comments. Where do you fit on this continuum? Why?



It is all about attitude, approach and presentation! What is your AAP?


TopTwentyPercent 60M
317 posts
12/11/2017 1:29 pm

How many 10s do you know. Is there a continuum for men?

It is all about attitude, approach and presentation! What is your AAP?


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