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Blogs > hubbyontheloose > married but still breathing

exactly what does the label "bi-curious" mean to me?  

hubbyontheloose 67M
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10/23/2007 7:25 am

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exactly what does the label "bi-curious" mean to me?
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twinkletoes1961 63F
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10/23/2007 7:15 pm

 Another great post SET keep up the great work. Totally agree with you .....

If you had to label bi -curious i would choose...

Heteroflexibility which is the newest permutation of sexual identity.

This means that the person has or intends to have a primarily heterosexual lifestyle, with a primary sexual and emotional attachment to someone of the opposite sex. But that person remains open to sexual encounters and even relationships with persons of the same sex.

Regards
Twinks


hubbyontheloose 67M
355 posts
10/24/2007 12:53 am
    Quoting twinkletoes1961:
    Another great post SET keep up the great work. Totally agree with you .....

    If you had to label bi -curious i would choose...

    Heteroflexibility which is the newest permutation of sexual identity.

    This means that the person has or intends to have a primarily heterosexual lifestyle, with a primary sexual and emotional attachment to someone of the opposite sex. But that person remains open to sexual encounters and even relationships with persons of the same sex.

    Regards
    Twinks
"Heteroflexible" - I love it! hahaha Who on earth comes up with these expressions? It really is a good one this one though and works SO much better than the others. I will now adopt this one as my "label". Perhaps we can get Senior Sizzle to include it in its' list of labels...then again perhaps not lol. let's get them to sort out all the irritating quirks of the system before we ask them to do anything else. Talk soon twinks.

SET


hubbyontheloose 67M
355 posts
10/24/2007 1:06 am
    Quoting CuriousAnd2Shy:
    For me, the label is exactly what is says, "bi-curious". Meaning, I'm not a card-carrying member of any particular gender group with a mission, and yet I'm not turned off by playing with members of my own sex.

    If they had the label "bi-friendly" I'd probably chose that instead. But, labels are a way for us all to play safely and that's all it is.

    After all, nowhere does it say, "bi-curious male, but I won't kiss a guy"... too long when you're going for the highlights.

    But, you have an excellent point. Why be categorized by the label? It's just a way to try and find more out about each other so that we can play together safely and not whig the other person out.
    Have a great day.
    Regards,
    2Shy
hey 2shy the label "bi-friendly" works too! Must admit the one I do like though is twinks' "heteroflexible" that one made me giggle. OOPS do "real men" giggle? OH MY GOD I must be gay after all arrrgh! lol You have to love stereotypes don't you? Delighted to see another one of us - i.e. somebody living by their own rules and if others don't like it....tough. I am also delighted to see somebody who is happy and willing to comment critically on what I say and challenge aspects of what I say. Only way we get different perspectives on life is by others challenging our thoughts. You my dear friend are welcome any time in my blog and I look forward to hearing your thoughts. off to read your blog now SET


hubbyontheloose 67M
355 posts
11/15/2007 10:19 pm
    Quoting  :
what does that make you? An interesting guy that sounds like a lot of fun to be around is what that makes you in my book! Seems like twinks term "heteroflexible" applies perfectly to you too! Keep on enjoying buddy in the way YOU feel is right.


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