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I don't fucking get it...:/
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I don't fucking get it...:/ This is prolly more a waste of my time but maybe putting this out in the Senior Sizzle universe will allow for a bit of feedback and perhaps open my eyes on a few things that I seem to be lacking upon....Now please allow me to start off by saying by no means am I dumb, at some times I may be a bit disconnected by choice, but for the most part I see things that are in front of me, around me, etc...I am a relatively attractive individual but don't have my pic up by choice (mostly due to concern of family and how they would feel if they found out I was posted on this site)....that being said I am not embarrassed by being associated with Senior Sizzle nor am I<b> ashamed </font></b>of my looks...I have been called handsome many times, have a pretty decent IQ, good job, etc....I'm far from the whole package but I'm a decent catch none the less....All that foreshadowing being said, I seem to be completely out of touch with this website....I'm not sure if it has to do with what I am seeking, my approach, or what exactly is the cause but no matter what I try the results seem to be the same....while I wouldn't say I am remotely close to desperate, perhaps I am coming across that way...I have tried contacting women thru multiple avenues (flirt, messages, IM's, etc.)...I have changed up my profile, title, etc. and nothing I seem to do works....I have been a member for almost two months and have less than one person a day checking out my profile and have had more success with bots, hookers, etc. than I have with actual real life members...I have zero doubt that on this site the guys outnumber the women at 10-1 if not much higher which causes a bit of a problem but even so I should be getting more attention than that even if I don't get messages, flirts, etc....Obviously I am part of the equation so I share some amount of the blame but think the overall dynamic of the site contributes as well.....I guess what I'm getting at or wondering is, is this site really suitable for an average Joe like myself??? The members who seem to be in the videos, getting the attention, etc. would get attention without this site....they are the ones who are sexy, have big cocks, fake tits, etc....The funny part is I'm actually an exceptional partner, have yet to find a partner who wouldn't put me in their top two for sexual encounters and that's while swinging a pretty average dick....I'm willing to fulfill my partners requests, eat pussy and ass like an all-star (I've been told, multiple times), treat women respectfully (even though the site specifically suggests not to do so) and yet here I am in the situation of "not being able to get laid in a house with a gold card"....I'm flummoxed, bamboozled, and just down right scratching my head....I've posted face pics (with little results) semi-erotic pics, changed posts, ideas, themes, etc. and here I sit again on a Saturday night twiddling my thumbs....... Sooooooo, I guess what I am seeking is some advice, knowledge, maybe even folksy wisdom on WTF I am doing wrong or how this site actually works, or maybe even someone to blow in my ear because I'm at a total loss here....I can say at this point I will not be renewing my membership and if I could I would be requesting a refund but maybe it's just me...maybe I'm the damaged goods who is unable to get the attention of horny women, I honestly don't know any longer.....So I open the discussion....anyone, everyone with thoughts, ideas, etc.....please share and tell me how this fucking thing works because for the life of me it completely escapes me..... If anyone actually reads this, thanks for letting me ramble and waste a bit of your time....advice is appreciated....Thanks. |
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