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Blogs > Banana_Canyon > My Blog

Another site format update? Give me a break already!!  

Banana_Canyon 46F
0 posts
6/11/2018 11:59 am
Another site format update? Give me a break already!!

So yeah, I literally refreshed my email page a moment ago and realized that the layout looks different on my email page. Really? Is this a necessary priority? Of all the improvements that could be made to this shitty, unstable and consistently glitchy site, the highest need of action was a need to update the format of what my email page looks like? Come on!!!

* How about tending to the fact that people always get weird glitchy symbols in their emails/IM's and nobody has a clue why they happen and the chaos ( and often times, arguments ) these things cause?

* How about tending to the issues that it's a gamble to IM.....sometimes the IM's go through, other times they don't. Sometimes it works flawlessly for a while, then abruptly nobody receives messages OR they don't get sent through OR some weird symbols start showing up? Same goes with the email system, as well.

* How about tending to the issues of NOT allowing standards to contact premium members here via IM. Do you realize how much unnecessary chaos and frustration this causes for premium members here?

* How about when we report someone of violations, they never take action? I have personally had a bozo contacting me for a while, even threatening me of stalking and the R-word. I reported him countless times, submitted proof, no action taken against him. This goes for dozens of other lesser violations I have reported time and time again against others who seem to get away with murder. Why have a policy in place if it's not enforced to any degree?

The list goes on and on. Of all the issues this site should be tending to as priority measures, an updated layout of what my email page looks like should be at the very lowest of priorities n that totem pole. Just when you think this site can't possibly get any worse, it stuns me to see the lack of care when it comes to priorities, yet the unnecessaries being held at priority level. Just unreal!

travellerabc123 54M
Ask me for a photo
3989 posts
6/14/2018 10:24 pm

 I usually agree with you the whole way, but this time I can't. Maybe you are having issues, but I'm a standard, and telling me I can't contact a premium is BS. Now, I don't represent all standards but I spent a lot of time and money on points so I can maneuver around rather than being stuck without any ability. So please don't lump us all together...
I didn't sleep yet, so sorry if I sound cranky.
Embrace the suck


Banana_Canyon replies on 6/15/2018 8:41 am:
It's fine if you're cranky, no worries, but what I say is NOT B.S. at all. I think the combined problem of men AND men who are standards who are here, is that they have no clue what it's like to be in a woman's shoes when it comes to being on this site and understanding the level of nonsense we put up with, along with the unbelievable amount of time and effort we put forth and deal with when it comes to dealing with irrelevancy and nonsense via communications with others here. This is why you cannot agree with me. Otherwise, you'd understand why I would hope that standards shouldn't be allowed to contact premium members here.

Example: Do you think it's right and fair that a premium member ( worse yet, a paying premium member ) should be the one doing ALL of the catering to dozens upon dozens of FREE standard members who sit back, contribute not a cent or amount of effort, who are unable to read our profiles PRIOR to contacting us women, should be allowed to do so? No! Come on, if anything, the situation should be reversed out of fairness. You see nothing wrong with the picture because you aren't living the life of a woman who resides here. First of all, the male to female ratio on this site is grossly imbalanced beyond belief. What that means for us women is that we're being bombarded left and right with dozens and dozens of men constantly pursuing us. So then when standards contact me, they are generally always doing so blindly and without the ability to read my profile at all. What this then means is that it opens up the door to a shit storm of what's usually to follow. Generally speaking, it almost always goes as follows:

1 .) Someone will write to me via IM or compliment me on my pics.
2 .) I'll say something like: "Hi. Thank you kindly for the compliment/shout, I appreciate it".
3 .) They'll then go on to say...I'd love to ( fill in the blank ) with you sometime.
4 .) I'll say: "Please read my profile or respectfully find a way to if you're unable".
5 .) They retort and automatically retaliate childishly on me with name-calling, foul language, and/or ignoring me, rather than being an adult, acknowledging me, or making a peaceful closure in the matter. These bozos get mad at me as if I'm the bad guy here when I'm minding my own business and THEY contact ME FIRST. It's unreal!

So yeah, do you think that pattern to deal with from dozens of members here is fair at all to the premium member? No, of course not! No standard who is unable to read a profile should be allowed to then go on to blindly be able to contact a premium member then. This created chaos, frustration, confusion and ultimately men and women alike get so fed up here that we are all enemies by default and most of us just leave the site or cease our searches here. The reason you can't see agreement from my perspective is because you're looking through the narrow lens of what you only know to be from your perspective as a standard male, not a premium female.

travellerabc123 54M
Ask me for a photo
3989 posts
6/15/2018 7:45 pm

 Yes. I think I am starting to understand the problem.
Embrace the suck


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