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Careful What You Wish
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Careful What You Wish As I look at profiles, I see it all the time. A 51 woman (no one in particular) only wants men between 20 and 40 years old who have enormous cocks. This is the most common fantasy listed, but there are others. A men who meets all my desires, a man who can stimulate my mind, or a man who is my soulmate are other frequent examples. In other words, it appears to be a list of desires that are not present or not currently achievable in this person's life. I know I am singling out women but I do not read men's profiles as a rule. Biggest complaints about profiles I read on the blog by women is dick pics, rude comments, and boorish behavior. Frustrating and annoying, but I am here to talk about realistic expectations. Be careful what you wish. Far more often, I read women blogs complaining how men are liars, cheaters, or just little boys (not a man). My thinking is many profiles eliminate over 99.9% of men while there is a definite lack of women. So, what are the 99.9% to do to attract your attention? Is it inconceivable that some men might say exactly what you want to hear? I do not condone dishonesty or infidelity. Nor would I discourage you from seeking your heart's desire. All I am asking is if you are unhappy with the people you choose, have you given serious thought about your expectations and demands. Personally, I have the following criteria for any person in my life. Do they make my life better and do I make their life better? I leave it open to my loose interpretation and sometimes, I change my mind about someone. Also, I try to be closer to the yes ones and distance myself from the no. This includes friends, relatives, business associates, sex partners, and lovers. While it may seem harsh, I feel happier when I follow my simple rule. I would be interested in your comments. Rumble in the Jungle |
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I laughed reading the basic physical description of what a woman my age seeks - men between 20 and 40 years old who have enormous cocks. That is what I avoid, LOL. I'm probably the exception to the rule though. I've been blessed to meet several men from this site who are still firmly in my heart. Even if we have moved on, we are still friends. An open mind makes happiness so much easier.
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Sometime you get what u ask for and vice versa. I always try to have an open mind coz u never know who u will meet.
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I try not to be as limiting as you mentioned although I do have a few deal-breakers. I do want someone to stimulate my mind. After all, the mind is the largest sex organ any of us have. We should try using it to better advantage. I try not to be overly concerned with physical appearance. I know I'm not the most attractive woman on this site by any stretch of the imagination, but I also know I'm not the ugliest, either. Physical looks are also subject to change. As for cock size, I'm of the opinion that it's not the size but how the man uses it. For those of us who are older (50+) it's not always size but ability to function as well. That doesn't even have to be a limiting factor. Play, have fun and find what works. It's the journey together that's important. Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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7/16/2017 12:18 pm |
All comments welcomed but please, try to be constructive. Thank you. Rumble in the Jungle
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