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Real? or Fairy Tale?
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Real? or Fairy Tale? Do you want a relationship or a fairy tale? Many women consider their new relationship to be “perfect.” That is the problem. It is “too perfect.” He insists on sending her hand-written cards and fresh flowers weekly. He buys her presents. He likes her to dress and look a certain way. He takes her to the best restaurants where it is good to be seen. What starts off as amazing, romantic, and loving can quickly become overwhelming, controlling and suffocating. When you can’t be as comfortable with each other hanging out in your old pajama bottoms watching a movie as you are getting all gussied up and eating at the best table in the best restaurant, there’s a problem! That kind of fairy tale – wanting things to be perfect all of the time – can’t be maintained forever. At some point, you have to do life with all of its imperfections, and people who want to control perfection can’t deal with that. Thin k of the song by John Legend... Cause all of me, loves all of you; Love your curves and all your edges, All your perfect imperfections. Isn’t that a great mental image? When we are truly in harmony with someone, we do love their perfect imperfections. Things which might bother or annoy us in others become tolerable. We are willing to<b> forgive </font></b>or overlook these “imperfections” because their “perfections,” the good they bring to us, and the good they bring out in us, are so much more powerful. I want real. I don’t want perfect. There is a difference. |
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4/28/2017 11:36 am |
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Your words are so true, too many people live in a fairy tale, or want that fairy tale life, no one on this earth is perfect, they live by image, social standing, and live for what others think about them, instead of living they way they want too or what is right for them, that is why so many people are unhappy, I feel they way you do, I want real not perfect, I want a true love not a perfect love, It is very nice to have a disagreement and make up, lolol, you don't forever, and that beauty, that tone body,that hair will fade away, so what do you have then?
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I can't imagine someone starting off a blog with a better 1st post. Kudos to you. Everyone needs to read this. Welcome to the wonderful and wacky world of the blogs. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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