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All Knotted
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All Knotted  It is freezing. I took my to school at 8:20 this morning, it is 3 hours later and I have yet to thaw out. Overcast skies, rain/snow mix, and the brisk frigid air has my mind wandering. I scrolled through all my submission memes and came across my collection of shibari pictures. I haven’t found anyone in the lifestyle who is knowledgeable in the art. This lifestyle has taught me that one thing can have several different meanings… When I see the word “bound” I do not see shackles, handcuffs or a body table. I see colored ropes purposefully tied along the contour of body lines. I think of patience as he dutifully maps out what the final masterpiece will reveal. I feel the control slip from my body because he moves me how he needs and wants me, it isn’t my decision but his. My guess is, bondage means different things to different people. What does it mean to you? My mind wandered further, thinking, can one man be everything a sub needs in a dom/master? Is it wrong to seek other qualities or kinks you desire in a person other than the person you are with? I’m learning not all cuisine satisfies everyone’s pallet. If a sub enjoys being spanked but her dom/master prefers mind control is it acceptable for her to seek being spanked by another? If a sub enjoys being tied and her sub prefers shackles, should she be allowed to seek that kink in another? Does this cheapen the dynamic within the D/s relationship? As a dom, would you be offended if a sub presented you with such a scenario? I’m knotted inside… |
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Sensualtension21, as a dom/daddy, I can say that I would be offended if you offered such a suggestion. One reason you choose a dom/daddy is because you prefer his 'style' of being a dom. If he can't give you all that you want, you should continue to search for one that can. I feel that is one reason that the process takes so long. Many of us can communicate and honestly you both need to be able to express yourselves so that you are happy as you can possibly be. Hope this helps.
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4/4/2017 3:44 pm |
Sensualtension21, as a dom/daddy, I can say that I would be offended if you offered such a suggestion. One reason you choose a dom/daddy is because you prefer his 'style' of being a dom. If he can't give you all that you want, you should continue to search for one that can. I feel that is one reason that the process takes so long. Many of us can communicate and honestly you both need to be able to express yourselves so that you are happy as you can possibly be. Hope this helps.
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tee hee don't think anybody read the words
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Sexy image. I need a woman who likes a bit of bondage.
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