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Wanna meet?
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Wanna meet? I've been meaning for ages to write a few blog posts here and I thought I'd start with this. I'll be honest, since I came back to Senior Sizzle just over a month ago I've been asked whether I would like to meet. Well duh. Isn't that why we're all here? It turns out no, there are lots who just wish to message. Or picture swap. Which is great but honestly I don't have time for endless messages and frankly I'm not going to do picture swaps because well... Well it's like this, guys, enough with the cock pics already. Honestly all it tells me is that a) you have one and b) I have to question your lack of imagination. Actually it doesn't really tell me (a) as let's be honest I have no idea whether that's really yours. I digress. When I'm asked if I want to meet my answer is more often than not yes. I like to meet. I like to get to know somebody without the stilted conversation that goes with messages that can be delayed by hours or which disappear in to the ether as it's on IM. What I probably don't want to do is give my phone number. Unless I do of course. Why? Well simply put get linked to various things and the last thing I want is to have a weapons grade stalker on my case. Been there. Done that. If I do agree to meet you can be sure of one thing. I will be there unless there is a life problem that causes me an issue. I think I've had to cancel one meeting so far and that was unavoidable. Which leads me to the next point: Make sure you really want to meet. I say this because I'm bored with being messed about and frankly there are a few out there who fantastise about meeting someone but lose their nerve. Cold feet is a thing I know but honestly it's not necessary. Why? Well: Meeting is just meeting. It's not a guarantee of a snog, a fumble, a blow job or you sticking your manhood inside me. A meeting is a chance to find out whether you like somebody even on a superficial oh-my-god-you're-hot level. A meeting means you can chat, sound normal and give whoever you're meeting a reason to want to meet you again and for you to find out whether you want to do more with them. Honestly it's that prosaic. Then there is time and place. I'm sure that it would be far more convenient for me to trail miles to meet you at nine in the evening because you're home from work then but that doesn't work for me. I keep things simple. I'm happy to meet at a place on my terms. A place that is convenient for me and where I feel safe. In public. It's not open to negotiation. Remember, you asked to meet, not me. So my rule as to where and when. Now then... If you've been in touch to say you're travelling from overseas and it would be great to meet the same rules apply. The only difference is that if you need to cancel because you suddenly decide that you'd rather have dinner with your colleagues than play hunt the salami after a bottle of champagne then keep in mind that was probably your chance. If you don't think you can organise something and stick to what you wanted to do then frankly don't do it. There are a few people on this site who that last section applies to. So there you are. If you would like to meet then say. It's not that hard and the worst that might be said is no. Oh, just really, honestly, truly don't say... Wanna meet. |
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Good post. Well said! You've captured the selfishness that comes across from most members here, who want everything on their terms without having thought about what you (the other party) might want or need for it to have any chance of going somewhere. Read my blog here guy4frot
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Hi, I totally understand what you're saying. I'm here to meet too and swap endless messages that lead nowhere. However it does seem that this applies to quite a few women who just want to chat and not meet. I do wonder how many people on here either want to meet or actually do. Bob xxx
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Nice to read your thoughts on this. Of course sites like this are just a tool to enable us to meet people hopefully likeminded who we would not get the opportunity to meet during the course of our daily routine lives. In my experience here, and not to cast the generalisation on everyone, but some just love the chase! It probably occurs on a daily basis and gives them the rush they need, rather than the real in person experience. Just saying!
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10/10/2019 7:22 am |
Yeah, I agree 100% this site has more fake profiles and people just wanting to waste time.... If you have a click and want to meet a few messages should do. If it becomes a whole lot over a long time... Forget it, it won't happen.
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