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time's are changing  

Resa_Flickan 38F  
9 posts
7/26/2019 6:25 pm
time's are changing


I recently spoke with an old friend, a very handsome and rugged 50 year old Marine Corps veteran.

He's going through a divorce and has spoken to me about his experience dating as a silver fox in this day and age.

He hasn't been single since 1989. No joke.

"I didn't know that dating is synonymous with 'fucking' now," he said.

"How do you mean?"

He went on to explain that the last he went with, he dropped her off home (who still does that?) and she was confused, saying, "Um, don't you want to come up?" He declined and bid her good night.

I explained that dating isn't synonymous with "fucking," it's just that sex on the first date is no longer the kiss of<b> death </font></b>as more of the generation pull away from conservative values.

On a general note, you have to admit that "holding off" is inherently a Christian way of doing things; i.e., placing too much value on a woman's chastity, allowing her sexuality to define her.

At least in America.

He said, "It's biological science that sex on the first date messes with your brain waves, making normally unacceptable behaviors completely acceptable just because you've had an orgasm with this person."

"No," I said. "It's pre-Tinder social science that makes a person think that way."

He went on to say that he doesn't value a woman less because she has sex on the first date, but it's impossible for him to feel like he's getting to know someone.

I mentioned that he's a lot like me (and he is), in that he can't enjoy sex with a person unless there's at least a tiny bit of connection.

But having said that, for the last four years, I've been living in a country where sex on the first date is quite normal if you like the person (and it has been this way for decades) and, in fact, when any sort of contact like that is made then it is assumed you are dating that person exclusively.

It's not a calculus exam.

Anyway, I don't miss dating in LA. Ha.

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
7/26/2019 7:26 pm


'Dating' on Wiki is an interesting read . . .


lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
7/26/2019 7:39 pm

I assure you dating now is very different it used to be, sometimes it is head scratching to figure out what is next...Just different, not better or worse, just different!!!!

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
7/26/2019 8:47 pm

The europeans I know think this countries
sexual maturity level is that
of a 12 year old boy!

Using more than all the road!


mike1958773 65M
945 posts
7/27/2019 12:52 am

tienes toda la razón aunque a veces hay chicas que les gusta hacer citas a ciegas en algún lugar


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