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Being a Single, educated, Intelligent Male on AdultFriendFinder  

coolguy6309 37M
6 posts
1/5/2017 3:59 pm
Being a Single, educated, Intelligent Male on AdultFriendFinder


OK, I have been a member here for right at a month. I have met several interesting, fun, and kind people. On the flip side, I have met several crass, conceded, and outright rude folks as well. What the fuck is wrong with certain people on here. Do you get off hurting or catfishing people...we are very to have fun...not be complete utter assholes. Its absolutely hilarious to me how many people have restriction on their profiles such as if you voted for Trump or Hillary...this site for for fucking and shouldn't be treated as a political battle ground. We are all entitled to your opinions.

It has been extremely hard to find someone with common ground that isn't 250 miles plus from me. Maybe I am a diamond in the rough in my area....who knows. Yes, I like the idea of dating older women, because they are not full of drama and actually seem to appreciate when a man gives them cool and collected attention. Not the typical email of "oh, I want to fuck your humongous tits and fuck your tight pussy bareback and shoot my load into you...Come on, I mean really...do you think a decent women is going to respond positively to that? Guys, Lets have a little class and respect for women on here. I can't tell you how many women I have talked to that are disgusted with the selection of men here on Senior Sizzle.

Women, please forgive me for sharing this secret with other men, but men if you actually treat a women with dignity and respect, and not as a piece of ass you will probably have much better luck with them. Its not rocket science...you don't have to be Wernmer Von Braun or Einstein to understand women. Just LISTEN. I am tried of all the men on here fucking everything up for the decent ones here. Stop thinking with your dick.

I truly love women...all types. I love talking to women, flirting with them, getting to know them, and if things work out having intimate relations with them. I will start posting several blogs on here, because I am curious as to what men and women both have to say. I invite all comments whether they are positive or negative.

CoolGuy6309

GhostofH 65M
22788 posts
1/5/2017 5:52 pm

I concur with the above! Great first post! I also agree that politics and I'll add religion should be a taboo subject on this site. However some may disagree with me on this aspect.... *sigh*


coolguy6309 37M
1 post
1/5/2017 7:15 pm

Thank you so much for your insight. You are correct, I didn't know that the site had other affiliated sites that were "typical dating sites" Thank you again on for the tip on posting from now on. As with anyone, I wan to maximize my posts exposure on here. I mentioned politics because I couldn't believe how much it came up in men and women's profiles. They would mention what type of dating/sex they enjoyed and then just delve right into politics. It just really surprised me.


BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
1/5/2017 7:45 pm

Don't forget, we don't leave who we are at the door just because we choose to fuck someone. No matter how much fun a couple is having, unless you intend to blow your load, wipe your dick and leave, there will be chit chat. And even if you have a no politic rule, there are a lot of other topics that touch to issues that are affected by politics (or religion or a lot of those other taboo subjects.

Believe me when I tell you that I've seen people ask for a lot stranger than who someone votes for

As for the site, if you go to the FAQ they state pretty specifically that this site isn't only for people looking to dick or get dicked. Specifically it says, ", you'll find a community of people using the site as a tool to make connections and find partners for dating, romance, friendship, and a variety of encounters". So there is that to consider when you read OPP (other peoples' profiles).

As for the catfish, well, like I said, people don't leave who they are at the door. This site is no different than any other site where people interact and you will find catfishing and the like no matter where you go. Caveat Emptor.

Finally, an important point if you want people to engage with what you write. It's hard to read a "wall o' text" and most people will bail before they are halfway through. Even though a blog is a "do what you want" space and rather informal, using paragraphs will help to ensure that your scratching don't get passed over.


helen_damnation 61F  
2487 posts
1/5/2017 8:46 pm

Not to come off as a Grammar Goblin (although I am). a little proofreading goes a long way.

Otherwise, as BEW said, this is ostensibly a dating site, just a bit more upfront in the sexual interests area, and you find the same things (and often the same people) as on other more vanilla sites. It is what you make of it.

But yeah, seems the cool kids are always at least a couple of states away. 'le sigh'

I am the only Me you get.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
1/6/2017 1:45 am

That is one of the best approaches I have ever tried to read here
Absolutely text book.I hope it pays off!

Using more than all the road!


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