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Sex after menopause?  

harbor112 64M
273 posts
6/4/2020 5:52 am
Sex after menopause?


Every one experience this differently. Have you been able to deal with it?

harbor112 64M
1567 posts
6/4/2020 5:56 am

One thing I'm guessing here. Is you longer worry about getting pregnant any more. And now enjoy when your man cum deep inside.


TravelingBBC89 35M
7 posts
6/4/2020 6:47 am

I don’t seek it but prepare in the event I stumble on it


gypsygirl0791 54F
21 posts
6/4/2020 6:50 am

Are you concerned about where you can cum, or are you concerned with what she's experiencing? I'm confused.


harbor112 replies on 6/4/2020 9:31 am:
Gypsygirl0791, The thought of getting pregnant when you do not plan to. Cause some women to be uneasy and don't want you to cum inside of them. Some will the initiative and withdraw you and finish you with a handjob. I would think, after menopause this would no longer be a factor on her part. Hence she'll let you cum inside her.

superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
6/4/2020 7:19 am

I never "worried" about getting pregnant before menopause!
I've been fortunate in that I had no issues with menopause or afterwards in regards to sex.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


WyoCowboy7751 70M
2537 posts
6/4/2020 8:03 am

My Wife , before I lost her , went though Menopause & another Female Related Thing in Her early 40's !! End result was Her having a Total Hysterectomy !! Her " Sex Drive " , after recovery , went from 100 too 0 in NO Time Flat !!


clittywhisperer1 59M
1415 posts
6/4/2020 8:55 am

my current wife has a hysterectomy about 10 yrs ago .she never worked right and had one child by miracle apparently .she had horrib;le experiences with sex and had a very puritan isolated upbringing . her husband was horrible at sex and she hated him after a while and avoided sex. I find her , seems nice , we date long distance , sex was pretty rarer and very odd, she got on ,barely , couldn't get her one leg to relax , took forever
to let all of me in , then sat there and played with her clit , not moving on me at all, she came and got off , laid down , and fell asleep . It never got better ,I unfortunately married her . she was in menopause , I helped her with herbs vitamins diet , she was a wreck physically and mentally as I found out .She did poorly on trying to get better. she just would not dedicate to getting better ,Somethings improved , but not most and not enough. then she moved in and sex stopped totally ,she said it hurt , never tried again , she never responded to me right at anytime .It was weird and frustrating .We are now separated .I cannot live in marriage without the deep emotional connection good sex brings , It is my only real need in life .She will never have that with me .I must move on before I waste more years like my first wife . In this case menopause added to other issues and killed any chance we could have a great life .The woman I truly love is near me now , not 90 miles away , she has my heart and soul and I have hers ,just not each others bodies right now ,we will get together eventually ,she will end her relationship with the old guy she does not love him like she loves me but he was stabile and lived near me . I hope her menopause does not turn off her switch ,she is incredible with me .


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
6/4/2020 11:50 am

Menopause, best thing for me. No fear of pregnancy, no pain or heavy bleeding. No interference in a hot night. Men don’t have to deal with those things. I call it freedom.


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